He will let you go shopping for yourself....with his Credit Card...."Just buy whatever you want Darling, I Just want you to be Happy" etc.....lol
1. you wouldn't be asking.
If you push away and he clamers for you.
That is what made my uncle marry my aunt after many years of dating.
Serious is serious. You kind of just know. Does he pay attention to you? Does he ditch you for other people? Does he treat you like crap?
Yes, he treats you like crap?