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would you ever use that person for alot of money for acouple of years and then turn and say i dont give a fabout you or wouldnt you tell them in a nice way so they wouldnt get hurt bad and their life messded up for ever
dolly99 dolly99 41-45, F 5 Answers Nov 16, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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I'd be concerned about them having their feelings hurt. The irony is that the nicer I was to them - in an attempt to be gentle - the more their crush might be exacerbated. It's a difficult issue. It's certainly possible to be friends with benefits though - with a number of people - if one is not in a permanent relationship

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It makes you feel quite miserable, because you feel so badly for them if you can't return their feelings.



As for that next part you wrote...no.

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why would it make the other person feel so bad

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I meant it the other way...when someone crushes on ME I feel miserable. I feel badly for them.

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kinda sad. this happened a while back actually. a good friend of mine. she's a wonderful person, really. I wish I could feel the same about her.



but hey, now she's got a boyfriend so I guess it works out.



uh... no I would never manipulate someone like that. that's ****** up.

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it happened to me badly he hurted me bad

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that's terrible. I'm so sorry.. I don't know how someone could be so twisted.

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