I've been talking to my first crush since I was 13. I'm 41 & he just called me at 9:18am this morning
Didn't you say you were married?
Does you hubby know you are contacting your ex? And does he care?
Well with you having these feelings, do you think you should ?
If he has moved on, it's time for you to do the same.
talk to him about it but if you are currently with someone leave them cause it isn't fair on them.
It's hard to give that up. Does it cause you pain to remain in contact? Is it preventing you from living a full life, meeting others, having other relationships? If it's not healthy for you, then perhaps it would be best to stop seeing them. Otherwise, why not see what happens?