How would u feel if ur brother asks u for money telling u he needs it for smthg important but instead buys weed?
16 Answers to "How would u feel if ur brother asks u for money telling u he needs it for smthg important but instead buys weed?"
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If you are against him using your mony for weed, when he askes for money for something importent, tell him to tell you what it is and you will take care of it. like if it is a bill you will pay it or write a check made out to who is getting the money. If he wont tell you. Probably not that importante.
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he's gonna hate me... oh man...
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Tell him if he lies to you again he will never see any money.
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my brother asks me for money all the time, you just have to make that call
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Not a problem. As others have said, though, that would be the last time I ever lent him money for anything. Ever.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.Like (2)
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His line of bother credit just ran out. That will hurt him allot more than it will you however you will need to use your BS detector more than ever now.
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LOL, to him weed IS important.
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yes, obviously
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So, perhaps he wasn't lying to you, just not telling you what the important thing was.
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It is important...
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Not a problem , My loan intrest rates still remain the same .
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join him for a smoke, why not you paid for it.
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My brother has never borrowed any money off me and if he did i know he would never get drugs as he's not into that.
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the problem is i dont lend him money, i give it to him, on a monthly basis, like pocket money, until he graduates
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I would stop doing it all together until he can prove to you that he is no longer on drugs
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I'd feel pretty sad if he didn't save me at least a nug to smoke :'(
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How old is your brother...? It sounds like he is just "getting into" using drugs o_O
Make it very clear that regardless of his drug use, lying about anything, especially to get money under the pretense that you are helping him with something important.Like (1)
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I'd demand my money back. And never give him money again.
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but i love my brother, he might need it for smthg else as well despite the weed ... idk...sigh
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Well, to get serious about this....next time he needs money for something important, let him know that you know that he bought weed with it last time, and tell him you will take him to buy whatever it is that is so important, or you will pay that overdue bill. If you feel he can't be trusted with the cash, stop handing it over, and just help him with the legitimate needs.
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I wouldn't believe much of anything he tells me after that.
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Lesson learned.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by hylierandom Mar 13th, 2013 at 6:30AM
Then you don't give him money again.
Next time he wants money, tell him he can give you collateral that's worth the amount first.
Or tell him to go to hell.
...Actions have consequences.
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