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    bookerdl - 31-35 years old

    Posted by bookerdl Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    A man who always puts his feelings first; regardless of how it impacts others. A man who's motto is not only said but demonstrated by his actions to be "What's in it for me?"

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19 Answers to "How would you define a selfish man?"

  1. ElLagarto - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by ElLagarto Sep 29th, 2008 at 5:16PM

    The same way I would define a selfish woman; except that a selfish man has two heads and is consequently twice as selfish.

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  2. Outspokentruthbetold - 26-30 years old

    Posted by Outspokentruthbetold Oct 14th, 2012 at 1:40PM

    ******* are selfish, but they wont tell you that. They are so focused on the man, and all their wrong doings, and flaws. Infact, that is the definition of selfishness, not allowing the man to live their lives because ******* are so insecure in theirs that they permit noone to find happiness. ******* want the man to give up everything they know so that they can rotate around the ***** all day long. If the ***** isnt on a peddle stool, she will never be happy. Stop focusing on petty **** and find a way to live in harmony with your man. Otherwise, go south to lesbian-ville, even then good luck. ******* are the worst when it comes to friends, or enemies.

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  3. Outspokentruthbetold - 26-30 years old

    Reply by Outspokentruthbetold Oct 14th, 2012 at 1:40PM

    since it was bleeped out...there are words like, b-i t-c hes, b-i t-c h, and sh-i t. Figure it out

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  4. Idea - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Idea Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    Someone who thinks that what they want and need are the most important things in the world, and if he's not happy then nobody will be.

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  5. aurio - 26-30 years old

    Posted by aurio Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    a man that only think about himself and his stomag,and nothing else around him.

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  6. Armine - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Armine Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    A selfish man is a man who thinks about himself above all else, has an overblown image of himself and lives only to satisfy his own ego. I used to think that selfish people were the most unhappy members of the human species; but now I have changed my mind about it, I think selfish types can be very happy in life (and do quite well, in fact) as long as their ego needs are being met by those who are willing to serve them.

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  7. Segaaa - 51-55 years old

    Posted by Segaaa Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    Could be a really great catch. I think anyone should put their own needs first, then be ready to help s/o else. Maybe he just isn't ready to be in a relationship that you want him to be in.

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  8. dotan - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by dotan Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    I will not care about him. I will make him crazy by my own ways. The way a selfish people hate...

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  9. cyberkitty - 18-21 years old

    Posted by cyberkitty Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    He's the man who believes the world revolves around him.

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  10. mysticsovereign - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by mysticsovereign Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    You already did. You can always shorten it to "Jackass" or "Jerk". If the dude in question is self-centered and rarely considerate of others (or you), let him know. Be prepared to get over a caring relationship, be it sibling, father or boyfriend.

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  11. schrdan - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by schrdan Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    my ex-boyfriend. He always put his needs ahead of everyone else. Still does. And also lies on top of it.

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  12. whitewater - 51-55 years old

    Posted by whitewater Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    A man who has an ****** before you do and then rolls over and goes to sleep....and snores yet to boot!

    He wants dinner cooked for him but never takes you out.

    He only cares about seeing HIS side of the family during the holidays.

    He blames you for his temper and his shortcomings - oh wait, that would be controlling and abusive, which is usually right behind selfish.

    I think we are all selfish by nature. It is the realization of this and the willingness to change which makes more complete human beings. Some people just never get it.

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  13. underconstruction - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by underconstruction Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    How do you define a selfish man ?

    My ex. Perfect example.

    Thank God he is an EX now.

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  14. RedheadJolene - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by RedheadJolene Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    One who gets so wrapped up in his own world he does not care or even notice the ones who love him or seek his attention.

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  15. emerald - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by emerald Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    Oh.... Where do I begin???..... lol.

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  16. JadedSplit - 16-17 years old

    Posted by JadedSplit Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM

    haha thats so true ElLagarto. yeah id say a selfish man will never let you speak and worrys so much about his own problems he tells you yours are unimportant and you should stop worrying and cook him dinner

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  17. Candidely - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Candidely Sep 29th, 2008 at 7:22PM

    One who thinks his needs, wants, and feelings are immensely more important than yours.

    One who would not do for you half the things you do for him every day.

    One who has the mentality that you agree with him & cooperate with him, or are "against him".

    One who doesn't listen, interrupts, and if he starts to listen, will probably mock you anyway if what you're saying doesn't immediately catch his attention and appeal to him.

    /sigh

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  18. solarxmoon - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by solarxmoon Sep 29th, 2008 at 1:11PM

    His wants, needs, and desires come not only first, but at the expense of other people and their's. There are many different areas in which one can be selfish: with money, with his social image, with sex, etc...

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  19. PeedeeDog - 70+ years old

    Posted by PeedeeDog Sep 29th, 2008 at 9:37AM

    His want's, needs, desires, come first!

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