Dangerous as I once fell out of bed doing it in extreme dark and hurt my ribs.
In this case one of our senses is gone. The sense of sight. So it heightens all of my other senses. I can feel him on top of me, feel his body move against mine, hear him moaning, taste his lips and touch his body. So without light it's even better because four of my senses are heightened.
Seeing the light!
I'd describe it as essential. You see, we've been married four decades and total darkness makes it easier for each of us to imagine the other is someone else.
i love candle light
I like looking at my lover's body and especially watching her enjoy what we're sharing and my all-time favorite is to look into each other's eyes as the moment passes - but lovemaking in the dark is a lot of fun too.