How would you feel if you found out your partner is addicted to pòrn sites?
15 Answers to "How would you feel if you found out your partner is addicted to pòrn sites?"
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better than being addicted to crack or something.
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As long as he or she were still able to have awesome sex with me? no problem.
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I would be ecstatic
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that would be *SO* freakin hot
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Happy because it would be after I asked them if they like ****.
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Indifferent
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Id feel relieved that is not something like he's having an actual affair or he's a serial killer
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It's only natural!! No problem
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Ok this is coming from a guys perspective (straight guy) it is perfectly normal to watch **** every now and than. Some more than others but ladies that's just a thing guys do its like a second language
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I would be annoyed.
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Id be curious as to why? and observe this addiction with this partner...xD
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You mean you wud talk to yr parner to find out why?
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sureee, or just let it be.
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Disappointed, but realistic about these things.
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How realistic?
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Well, I cannot assign a number to it, because that would be simply meaningless. By "realistic," I mean that essentially all men (including my self -- to a lesser extent in recent years) are fascinated by looking at other people engaged in the things that **** covers. That does NOT mean that he doesn't love you ... it's more a matter of visual stimulation that harkens back to mens' hunter-gatherer days. Sorry to be so blunt, but my screen name IS AnonymousButCandid.
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embarrased
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depends on what kinds and since addiction is a strong word,it would depend on other factors as well. If 'appreciation' of such sites affected the relationship negatively,then a good discussion may need to be had.
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Posted by Isope Feb 2nd, 2013 at 9:55PM
I would feel just fine..I have to say something and you might think im an idiot or whatever but just think about it..
A lot of women have a problem with their men watching **** because they get insecure in comparison with these pornstars and their "amazing bodies" or whatever.. It might be the case that a woman just dont want their man to compare them to anyone at all, period..
But just think about it..
Isnt it in comparison that we find, our loved ones to be most beautiful..
How many times have all of us not said "i love him more than anyone"..." He is the most beautiful person of all i have met".. " I have never been touched as he touches me".. Or whatever, the possibilites are neverending..
My point is, that it is in comparison with other people that we see the unique in our loved ones (or just in general in people).. It is when we compare that we notice how beautiful and special we are in each case..
Besides that, men are very visual. They need a visual stimulant in most cases. During sex, a lot of women close their eyes, while men almost always keep theirs open. And most men would never be with a pornstar. Its just a fantasy.. He is with you because he likes you and is turned on by you.. And it is made clear to him by comparing you with others (like pornstars or ex girlfriends or even one-night stands).. Tell me if you think im crazy.
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Reply by kelnira Feb 2nd, 2013 at 9:56PM
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Reply by Isope Feb 2nd, 2013 at 10:02PM
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