I would feel just fine..I have to say something and you might think im an idiot or whatever but just think about it..
A lot of women have a problem with their men watching **** because they get insecure in comparison with these pornstars and their "amazing bodies" or whatever.. It might be the case that a woman just dont want their man to compare them to anyone at all, period..
But just think about it..
Isnt it in comparison that we find, our loved ones to be most beautiful..
How many times have all of us not said "i love him more than anyone"..." He is the most beautiful person of all i have met".. " I have never been touched as he touches me".. Or whatever, the possibilites are neverending..
My point is, that it is in comparison with other people that we see the unique in our loved ones (or just in general in people).. It is when we compare that we notice how beautiful and special we are in each case..
Besides that, men are very visual. They need a visual stimulant in most cases. During sex, a lot of women close their eyes, while men almost always keep theirs open. And most men would never be with a pornstar. Its just a fantasy.. He is with you because he likes you and is turned on by you.. And it is made clear to him by comparing you with others (like pornstars or ex girlfriends or even one-night stands).. Tell me if you think im crazy.
I think you're crazy... crazy awesome that is.
Well thank you kelnira. That is kind of you to say.. Im sure you are crazy awesome too :)
Hehe.. Thats all you have to say?.. No "disagree" or "agree" or anything like that?. Not even a " you are an idiot and im going to block you"?
better than being addicted to crack or something.
As long as he or she were still able to have awesome sex with me? no problem.
I would be ecstatic
that would be *SO* freakin hot
Happy because it would be after I asked them if they like ****.
Id feel relieved that is not something like he's having an actual affair or he's a serial killer
It's only natural!! No problem
Ok this is coming from a guys perspective (straight guy) it is perfectly normal to watch **** every now and than. Some more than others but ladies that's just a thing guys do its like a second language
I would be annoyed.
Id be curious as to why? and observe this addiction with this partner...xD
sureee, or just let it be.
Disappointed, but realistic about these things.
Well, I cannot assign a number to it, because that would be simply meaningless. By "realistic," I mean that essentially all men (including my self -- to a lesser extent in recent years) are fascinated by looking at other people engaged in the things that **** covers. That does NOT mean that he doesn't love you ... it's more a matter of visual stimulation that harkens back to mens' hunter-gatherer days. Sorry to be so blunt, but my screen name IS AnonymousButCandid.
Watching a video or looking at pictures here or there is nothing to worry about. But if they're addicted then it's a completely different story. Being addicted myself, I know that I try and hide it from my wife. While I would still take her over the net, there is something about internet **** that can make it more appealing. I think it's the fact that it is always there and never says no.
My wife does know and she's not happy with it. I am getting help for it, but it is a slow process.
If the roles were reversed, I think I would be a little disappointed that I wasn't enough, but try and join in .
Hope that helps.
That is helpful. My husband is addicted, but denies it. He tries to hide it from me and every time we talk about it he tries to downplay how much time he spends looking for and watching ****. It's not about looking or comparing me to other people or that **** is out there so he's going to look at it. The part that is scary is that with the way social media works today and interplays with smartphones he always has it with him. Everyday he sees and gets updates of regular people, not people getting paid or in a professional industry, but regular people who could live around the world or in our neighborhood. And no matter what I do or how much I do there is always something new, different, and more on the internet.
I hate it. Because my husband substitutes watching **** rather than having sex with me. When we do have sex, I feel like it's boring and it's just him using my body to get off instead of us having an intimate relationship.