Don't have sex with him.
if we dont..
he might say we dont love him enough to do it with him???
I'm sure that sex is a big part of it...guys tend to give love to get sex...just like women give sex to get love...It's all very normal...I'm sure he loves you, it's just motivated by his need to sex you.
He will be concerned about you. He will care about your happiness and enquire after your day. If all he wants is s e x then whatever you tell him will get a very brief and unconcerned response while he eagerly anticipates you moving on to the only subject he is interested in.
If he does other things with you, e.g. See friends, go to cinema, parties, restaurant etc....then he wants to be with you.<br />
If he only stays in...then its possibly only s ex
have him take you shopping, cut him off(you know what) hug and kiss him in frt of his buds.
when he respects you
Does he notice your clothes or your smile/frown first.
If I was looking for definitive proof I would push him sexually to the max and make him say he didn't want it, or just couldn't handle it. Then complain about how often you have sex, and blame him for finishing too early, tell him all your other boyfriends were better, lasted longer,etc. If he stays after that he really won't be interested in sex with you. It will be to damaging for his self esteem to admit he wants it. Good luck.
I have given the message that I was just after sex, when that wasn't the case at all. <br />
Don't hold out on him and see if he gets mad... if you hold out on a guy, they usually get mad... I do. Don't listen to anybody implying that you should use sex as a form of currency. You use your sex as you feel is natural. <br />
If he just comes to have sex and then leaves, no dice.<br />
If he goes out of his way to be with you, good sign.<br />
If he tries to better you: Advice, some form of coaching... anything to help you out in the LONG run. GREAT sign.<br />
Does he touch you really tenderly?<br />
Has he changed things about his life for you?
You'll know...women just 'know' these things...
If he is under 18 he is prob just after sex..... sorry but its the truth 90% of the time.
All boys want sex. Period.<br />
Want a boyfriend who admires you, respects you, wants to be your friend, likes to cuddle, will go shopping with you, is cute, dresses well ... easy! Find a gay boyfriend!
what makes you think he just wants s3x?
I'm at the point where I have to worry if SHE is after sex.<br />
Pays off to be a principle-ba<x>sed 16 year old :D
hold out on him if he gets mad then that shows