How would you tell a shy person "I love you? "?

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I'm a shy man. And I would want a woman to tell me she loves me by hanging out with me, or allowing me to hang out with her (without a word). Then, I will wake up, (slowly, I might add), and want to be around you. I'm not a wham bam thank you ma'am kind of guy. I'm looking for a lasting relationship. Not a one night stand. That hurts us...and I mean...it HURTS us. It's long term, or nothing at all.

It's really HARD for me to pull that out of me. And shy men are like that. We need help AND patience. We have been hurt too often, and we don't like being hurt. If you really do love us, you'll hang out, stick around, and wait.

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rylnn	Posted May 11th, 2009 at 2:03AM " i love you " ?? lol. Rated: +3Vote for this!
Socklord	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 7:22PM Yell it out in a crowded restraunt, then give them a big hug. Rated: +2Vote for this!
KnightBlade	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 2:50PM I agree with creamsicle. I'm a shy person. If a girl loved me I would want her to tell me. Don't do anything flamboyent. What would be great is finding a note that I could read in private and think about. Shy people are great thinkers...possibly thinking to much. I would just suggest you be very clear in the note though. :D Rated: +2Vote for this!
Creamsicle	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 4:13PM The same way I'd tell an unshy person... I'd say "I love you" :)~ Rated: +2Vote for this!
sisipamprsboi	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 7:23PM just say the words. chances are they love you too. they're just too afraid to say it. Rated: +2Vote for this!
DollyDiva	Posted May 11th, 2009 at 2:04AM "I love you" truly from your heart ... :) Rated: +1Vote for this!
avatar4eva	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 2:32PM Hi Mariefairy, i think there is no better way to say i love you than to literally say i love you. invite him/her for a conversation somewhere like the park, where you can be alone, cafes, restaraunts are not a good idea. if your younger then 16, you could use the word 'crush' instead of i love you. older then that, say love Rated: +1Vote for this!
annasangels	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 2:02PM through a poem without anyone else to know.. Rated: +1Vote for this!
zoey85	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 1:56PM I'm a really shy person and the only way people said 'I love you' to me is like anyone else...The problem was that I was shy to say 'I love you' back! ^_^ cheers! z Rated: +1Vote for this!
IlooklikeJesus	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 5:32PM Just the same way you would anyone else, i guess! Just say, I love you! Rated: +1Vote for this!
dbwhoof	Posted May 11th, 2009 at 5:24AM Whisper. Rated: +1Vote for this!
woodinhouse	Posted May 11th, 2009 at 3:08AM i would put my hand in his and look into his eyes and tell it to him in his ear, thn I would wait for a response, Rated: +1Vote for this!
walkthisway	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 7:43PM Well, I'm really shy, and I would want him to say it really quietly so only I could hear. And somewhere in private. But that's just me. Rated: +1Vote for this!
jazman13	Posted May 10th, 2009 at 10:46PM Just come out and say it. Being shy myself, taht would make me happy no matter how or where it was said. Rated: +1Vote for this!
MrsIcb4rP	Posted May 11th, 2009 at 4:14AM you would want to do something lavish, loud & very public. nah, jk, just say whats in your heart. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Y991	Posted May 11th, 2009 at 5:45AM Ok here's a way...send him a sms saying "I love you", you can do that even if you two were in the same place, or not ;) Rated: +1Vote for this!
rem122	Posted May 11th, 2009 at 12:57PM lol, sorry i had to answer this because it reminded me of a conversation i had with a guy friend of mine whos very shy. his response: "i'd want her to storm in, push me against a wall and say 'We are dating, *****' " Rated: +1Vote for this!

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