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How you feel when you know inside that it is only you who always make first step with your friends?

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Asked By: Blulel 31-35, F  9 months ago

I feel alone and I tried to contact a friend but his phone number does not work any more and he does not answer me my e-mails.

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    tantaitai - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by tantaitai Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:43PM

    People always will come in and out of your life. The universe brings people to you when it is time for you to grow or learn (and the same for them), and you two can learn from each other. When that learning is over, you two separate. It is possible that you two were not really close friends in the end, but that certain circumstances brought you two closer for a time. Do not mourn your lost friend, make new ones that can enrich your life today. Be the best person you can be, and always remember that people come and go, so enjoy your time with them when they are around, and do not hold expectations that they will be there forever. Sometimes, it is just not meant to be that way.

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  1. Blulel - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Blulel Aug 7th, 2012 at 7:05PM

    Thank you tantaitai ! I know but my emotion are on top of my brain. I have two choice : first waiting again and keeping worrying and second is to talk with his parent but i am afraid of worrying them too.

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7 Answers to "How you feel when you know inside that it is only you who always make first step with your friends?"

  1. Traceavery - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Traceavery Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:28PM

    used... friendship should be a twoway street...

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  2. Killinger - 26-30 years old

    Posted by Killinger Aug 7th, 2012 at 5:47PM

    Well, it has been my experience that in relationships most of the time it means more to one of them than it does the other. Try to find a friend that you mean a lot to. Keep your others as back ups. A little cold, I know, but this is life. It's hard and unforgiving and there isn't much room for nice people.

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  3. Blulel - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Blulel Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:16PM

    Thank you killinger...I having choose this friend but i run always and when he talk with me he admits that it was him who would have call me. I know that I am in his heart but I am exaperate about receving news from him.

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  4. obroin - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by obroin Aug 7th, 2012 at 5:43PM

    You teach people how to treat you - if they treat you without respect, get new friends.

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  5. Blulel - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Blulel Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:26PM

    thank you ! I know I working on this !

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  6. obroin - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by obroin Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:29PM

    You're welcome dear - be kind to your self.

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  7. winstonwelles - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by winstonwelles Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:40PM

    I feel like this with several of my old friends. Since we've drifted apart geographically I realised after a while that a couple of them were seeing me as "old school friend to be reconnected with now and again" while I was seeing them as "inner circle of friends to be kept in touch with regardless of distance". But it hurts a bit to know that they're in better touch with other members of the same group of people than they are with me.

    I'd probably have let them go sooner if I was any good at meeting new people. Blah.

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  8. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Oddandsingular Aug 7th, 2012 at 5:48PM

    You need new friends

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  9. Blulel - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Blulel Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:23PM

    Maybe that yes but my trust is shaken and I am afraid that the partern is the same.

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  10. GoodgirlsclubGodsent - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by GoodgirlsclubGodsent Aug 7th, 2012 at 5:44PM

    great lol i love it
    they would never step into my dungeons to donate blood alone
    ill guide them lol

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  11. Blulel - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Blulel Aug 7th, 2012 at 6:25PM

    lol thank for your comment

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