Easy just say HI- Guys love that
Pay for the date...after you ask him to lunch. Just the first date though - then go Dutch :)
Anything you do whether you have confidence or not is going to work. You dont need confidence because you are a woman. Lacking balls doesnt matter for you. You can mess up and account for it in that regard as well. It is too easy for women. That is why people arent just ******* all over the place all the time. Women dont put themselves out there like men do.
Touch his* hand, look into his eyes, touch his cheek. Kiss him. Speaking from experience; forget the guys have to make the first move rule, be confident and do what feels right.
*Or her, of course.
Call him and ask him out.
Just remember: guys are, for the most part, thick headed...we need to be beaten over the head, sometimes... Just say, " I really like you..." he will melt...
The same way guys do.
Talk to him. Get friendly and ask him out.
Kiss, then grab the rear!