I'm sorry you are still going through that strife...he needs to make a decision...let you go or pull you close...I finally had to just let mine go...I believe in marriage vows too...but you can't make a decision for someone else...good luck ;)
Look as long as you want but get out and meet new people. If he thinks your sitting at home waiting for his return it well be a long time before he does return.
STUFF your parents, if left you, time to move on and get on with your life
4 months is a hell lot of time. Why did he leave btw? It's okay if u don't want to answer that. I know it's a bit personal question
You don't want him back if that's the case .
Well, 4 months and he's still deciding! Wow! He's amazing! He should be concerned about ur feelings too. Have u guys talked about this or is he out of contact too?
I feel for you! Why wait?
And some kill each other .. Divorce is always an option , before you drive each other crazy .
Your parents are not you. You have to think of yourself. Be kind to yourself. Start to move on as hard as that maybe. If he is still about then you need to talk. Don't wait.
…..move on… and is that profile pic really you?….
….move on… and have some fun… :) be happy and be well…...