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I love my fiance and he me. However i need more of a physical relationship. He is older and loves me.What do I do?

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Asked By: Shameka93ky 18-21, F  1 year ago

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7 Answers to "I love my fiance and he me. However i need more of a physical relationship. He is older and loves me.What do I do?"

  1. wtfallday - 41-45 years old

    Posted by wtfallday May 31st, 2011 at 10:58PM

    If this bothers you now, it will only increase as time goes by unless he'll try to fullfill your needs. Make your needs known to him and see what happens.

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  2. TechnoMetal93 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by TechnoMetal93 May 31st, 2011 at 9:56PM

    While all these methods are probably the best I would still suggest that you shave it, grease it, and present it. Pardon my bluntness.

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  3. jim3130 - 56-60 years old

    Posted by jim3130 May 31st, 2011 at 9:26PM

    I agree with every reply. Perhaps he suffers from ED. Regardless --- you need to talk to him about this.
    IF he's honest --- he'll tell you "what his problems are". IF he's "hiding" something --- then, he's dishonest and you have the right to know about this.
    Just talk to him. IF he respects your asking ---- it is then that he respects you.

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  4. jim3130 - 56-60 years old

    Reply by jim3130 Jun 3rd, 2011 at 7:38PM

    You know what? I want to amend my comment. I think what's important is YOUR age range --- and the "older guy's" age range. That will help us. I may be the only one who is in the "dark", here --- but, I don't get it.

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  5. ashleerox - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by ashleerox May 31st, 2011 at 9:25PM

    SUGGEST IT OUTRIGHT, IF THE ANSWER IS NO HE MEANS NO..now wat else??

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  6. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Posted by justkoz May 31st, 2011 at 9:02PM

    Maybe he has ED. Erectile Dysfunction and he is afraid to tell you. You need to ask him why he is not wanting to touch you all over! You need to find out before you get married because it sounds like you are going to have a huge problem right off the bat. Talk to him and ask him directly what is the problem with him not thinking about being physical with you. If he says he is waiting to get married then he is a liar and you need to move on big time.

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  7. Shameka93ky - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Shameka93ky Jun 1st, 2011 at 2:42AM

    I thought maybe that was possible..it just hurts bc he has always been physical before me with many women...since we have been together...sex is like rare...he says i turn him more on mentally...and he is tired and wore out from work...I just feel unattractive and unwanted.

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  8. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Reply by justkoz Jun 1st, 2011 at 7:01AM

    To already get an excuse that you turn him on mentally is not going to ever get you more physical contact with him. He is really not for you. A marriage has 3 parts. The mental, spiritual & and the physical. If you miss one part you will hate yourself forever getting married to him.

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  9. Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Vessa May 31st, 2011 at 8:50PM

    Tell him what you need and what you think marriage should incorporate. Try to at least get on the same page about your needs in that department. If you are going to marry this person, then you should at least be able to tell him about such things.

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  10. ThomasAquinus - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by ThomasAquinus May 31st, 2011 at 8:30PM

    Talk to him. If you want him to be more physical, the first step is communication.

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