been threw afew bad relationships myself I still haven't Mrs right but I still try some far as where to look who knows just bars aren't the place to look I know that their fun for adventures but not serious places for a partner
You can still look but take the pressure off yourself and others by just looking to make friends first. <br />
Or go out with men you would not have considered in the past just to get to know them, NOT to potentially marry. You know we women sometimes disallow very wonderful men with unreasonable standards. I am guilty of this in the past, and the older you get the more you realize what is truly important in a man. It's not looks, job, car, or any of those things. It's genuine, good heart, kind, smart, and loyal. There are plenty of men like this in the world just as lonely as you. Have maybe 2-3 deal breakers and then consider everyone else as datable...at least as a new friend.
What are you after?
Many relationships fail because one or both of the people involved didn't want to put the effort into keeping the relationship going. It is easy to leave in our modern society. Our grandparents could not do so for social and economic reasons and worked thru their problems. <br />
There is no Mr. Right. Sorry. Just Mr. normal. Men are simple creatures with simple wants and needs. Find one you LIKE and can respect and don't let him go. <br />
Go where men you might like go. Ballgames, (not little league, they are all married), sports bars, auto shows, hardware stores, Off Road shops, etc. Men are busy doing things and will not come and find you. Or else they are sitting in their parents ba<x>sement smoking pot and you don't want those.<br />
Go browsing with a girlfriend; go shopping. Women shop. Dress nice, but not like a tramp or hooker. Go fishing where men are and see what you attract. Avoid married men, but you can often use them to introduce you to their single buddies. Married men love to hook up their single friends. They see it as sharing the pain.
Uhh I'm 57 and can't find Mrs. right. Actually I quit looking. This isn't working either ?? There are few social and acceptable arenas to meet people around here. I'm looking for connection not perfection. That doesn't seem to help
I am 31 and still single. I have not found my mrs. right. I thought I did but then she whent and dumpt me. I am a nice guy I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs and I am straight and monogamous witch is a big plus considering that most women today are not at least that is the way it seems. what I am seeking is a woman who is straight, monogamous, has no kids and who has a good hert and good sence of humer. some one who has values and morrals. I am 5 6 tall with brown eyes, red hair, way 245 lbs and have no kids. I am also not seeking any one with kids since I want my oan kids and not to be stuck razing other peoples. I feel though that I do have the dec stacked agenst me in some ways though since I am blind and I don't work so live on a fixt income. most of the women I have dated in the past have been a mixture of blind and sighted and a few vi people inbetween but nun of the relationships I have had have ever worked out. I just want to find my mrs. right and not my mrs. right now. I also am not a drinker so I don't go out to bars that offen or really anywair where I might be able to meet single women. I live in a very small town and have been hear for almost 10 years. I am very quiat and keep to my self. so I hope that maybe my mrs. right might be reading this and might ant to contact me?