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I am a bigger woman with a big heart. How can I get a date if I don't get out much? I'm pretty lonely. :(

As I said, Im a bigger woman, but have been told by MANY that i am beautiful. I feel beautiful.
I dont get out much 'cause I haven't made many friends since I just left a man that I was with for 3yrs, and am now starting my whole life over.
I have NEVER lived alone, and I get pretty lonely. I just wish I had a friend to go out to eat with, go for a drink, or even walk along the Mississippi river. I have a Hoveround, so I can 'roll'....lol
Can someone friend me so we can chat and maybe have a drink or something?

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    KayKing - 46-50 years old

    Posted by KayKing Mar 26th, 2012 at 12:17AM

    You will find someone who loves you for what you have to offer. All of it. If a person truly loves you, what you look like won't matter. They will love you for who you are. There are men like that out there. I hope you find one and he makes you happy. Good luck to you!

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  1. harleycow - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by harleycow Mar 26th, 2012 at 7:05AM

    KayKing- Thank you for the kind words. I grew up BIG my whole life. I was always getting laughed at & made fun of. then, one day my Prince Charming came along. He did see me as a very beautiful person on the inside &, to my surprise, on the outside too. he treated me like a Queen...The way he made me feel. Then, one day, he chose to cheat on me with a female 25yrs his junior. Did it when I was in the hospital in a coma. I caught them having sex one night in her room in our house. Come to find out, they had been doing this for months. So, all along, he was telling me he loved me just to use me for things like rides to Chicago, (150mi), a vehical,I got good pain meds. I could go on and on. He makes me feel real dirty to even think about sex anymore. So, maybe it's not be being an old hag, or someone who 'has meat by the pound'. It's trying to go on in my life after my heart was ripped out by a man who only thought with his penis. Ya know some men do that. Hmmm....

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9 Answers to "I am a bigger woman with a big heart. How can I get a date if I don't get out much? I'm pretty lonely. :("

  1. SilentMoonX - 70+ years old - male

    Posted by SilentMoonX Mar 26th, 2012 at 2:24AM

    if u religious then join a church, or somethin.

    or try nd possible join any club. just tips..

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  2. biker2bfemmed - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by biker2bfemmed Mar 25th, 2012 at 11:30PM

    Hello,

    You could start with bbwchatzone.com. There's others, that do charge a fee, but also have a free side that You could "shop" and then join briefly for one that interests You.

    i would further assert that You don't need to go places to meet people, but rather meet people at the places You go. Generally speaking, what social things You do go to (using a church group as an example) there would be people with interests that both You and the other people there share.

    Just sayin'.

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  3. harleycow - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by harleycow Mar 26th, 2012 at 12:29PM

    I'll try the bbwchatzone.com and see what I can find. As I was saying in my first posting, I don't get out much...If even at all. I've been thinking about joining a church down in the town I recently moved to. Guess I might need Him to guide me and help me along. I'm not saying I'm ready to date, but having a man around would be nice to just chat with and stuff. Thanks

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  4. Cross18Dress - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Cross18Dress Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:41PM

    My advice is that you just be yourself and just embrace yourseslf for who you are... If you are happy with yourself then other people will notice this and they will see a side of you that you dont even know exists.... I hope you find some one and you seem nice so god bless you :) I hope this helps...

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  5. asocial - 36-40 years old

    Posted by asocial Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:40PM

    Yea what thief said. Some guys are ' chubby chasers'. check out dating sites

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  6. harleycow - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by harleycow Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:47PM

    I wouldnt know the first thing about finding a free web site for chubby women. Any ideas?

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  7. ThiefWhoHasHeart - 22-25 years old

    Posted by ThiefWhoHasHeart Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:38PM

    Look at dating sites for people who like big beautiful women.

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  8. harleycow - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by harleycow Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:59PM

    Got any good ones for me that are free?

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  9. ThiefWhoHasHeart - 22-25 years old

    Reply by ThiefWhoHasHeart Mar 25th, 2012 at 11:02PM

    i don't know. I'm just some gay guy. But I would just search Google. Maybe look up some reviews.

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  10. SUMMERSLAM - 22-25 years old

    Posted by SUMMERSLAM Jan 21st, 2013 at 2:48PM

    Hello! You simply need to use online searching to find a gentleman as generous as you are,darling! Simply go to www.bbwchatzone.com.

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  11. SadNTired - 31-35 years old

    Posted by SadNTired Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:43PM

    get out and get involved...
    go volunteer and get to know others while you are helping out those in need!
    join a book club or take some type of class
    check out your local parks and rec or community center and see what they have to offer!
    Take a dance class.. like ballroom dancing .. you will meet others there!
    Get up and Get OUT!!
    :)

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  12. harleycow - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by harleycow Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:46PM

    It,s really hard for me to do a lot of those things, for i am limited with the use of my legs.

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  13. SadNTired - 31-35 years old

    Reply by SadNTired Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:48PM

    why not join some type of group then .. like a book club? you dont have to walk around a lot.. you are out with others and socializing

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  14. DistantLonging - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by DistantLonging Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:39PM

    You say you're a bigger woman? There are groups out there with women such as yourself in mind. AND there's a male following and opportunity for meet and greets in almost every city. Don't lose heart, I'll shoot you a message. :-)

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  15. harleycow - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by harleycow Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:48PM

    Awesome...I dont know how to go about finding sites like that.

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  16. DistantLonging - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by DistantLonging Mar 25th, 2012 at 10:51PM

    I tried messaging you, but I think your settings blocked the message. *or maybe I just have cooties (I don't know)* :-)

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