I am almost 20 and i havent even kissed a girl i don't even know how i get so nervous around women, please, i need help
10 Answers to "I am almost 20 and i havent even kissed a girl i don't even know how i get so nervous around women, please, i need help"
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No rush, just try and make female friends first. You will get there in the end.
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The answer is that you should kiss a girl even when you are nervous. Don't forget that she is nervous too. That will never go away, so go and live your life, kiss the girl (just like in the little mermaid song) but don't get carried away
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If a girl is attracted to you, she will kiss you. Don't be in a rush to kiss any girl just to wipe it off your list.
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Oh. thats cute , practice talking to women.. for example at a grocery store simply flirt with a passer by i mean c'mo n whats the worst that could happen eh?
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Learn to date.
You can't get to first base if you never step up to the plate.
Friends and family can help you get started if you ask for help.Like (1)
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if it looks like she's flirting with you just do it already!
If you like this girl go for the kill or else she'll lose interest and go with someone that will kiss her. She can deflower you per say. Do it, next time you see her point to a random direction and be like what's that? then she will look and then you'll zoom in on her face. Then when she turns around and asks you what are you pointing to? she'll notice your next to her. If she backs off sorry your out of luck. But.... if she stays still move your lips on top of her.
Do this next time you see her.Like (1)
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I think some people just need more time to be comfortable with themselves before they can reach out to others (women) in effective ways. I'm in my 30s and I've dated a few guys who didnt really start dating until 25/26. There isnt a timeline you know, though it is nice to not be alone, sometimes people have grow into their own skin a bit before they can go sharing it.
That said really just kiss the girls, its not a big deal :)Like (1)
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Get wasted.
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loser
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ignore what i said
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thanks for your helpfull input. some people do have things we struggle with. I work as a mine clearance diver in the royal navy i can dispose of deadly explosives to make our waters safe, but i struggle talking to women, everyone has their own down falls
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by BennDover Nov 18th, 2011 at 10:50PM
Awww thats so sweet......no just kidding....seriously dude, don't worry about it. It's not as difficult as disposing of deadly explosives. The worst that can happen is a girl will tell you that you suck at kissing and thats when you pull her closer and tell her "then I guess I'll have to practice more with you." Trust me on this...a girl is not going to push you away for not having any kind of experience...so don't sweat it. Worry more about not getting blown up
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