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I am completely and utterly heartbroken I feel physically and mentally sick I'm worried for myself, will this go away

My gf of 6 yrs left me, my first love, I feel suicidal and I know this is bad. I don't know how I'm gonna cope x( I never want to let her go. She said she would give me a chance in the future but I can't be without her. We fell in love young, she says this is relationship is too hard right now. I'm having panic attacks, I don't want to be alone

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  1. assyrianpride - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by assyrianpride Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:55AM

    it will go away. its happened to me too many times. it just hurts until it does.

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  2. ArthurCurry - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by ArthurCurry Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:56AM

    My heart goes out to you. My girlfriend of five years left me in august. I'm only now in January starting to feel okay about it. Heck yeah I still miss her and would take her back in a heart beat. But I'm crying less. Want to die less. Feeling less alone. It'll take time. But eventually you'll get back to normal.

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  3. LostLoveJ - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by LostLoveJ Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:55AM

    I know it sounds like BS but believe me "Time Heals" I have felt like you do before, so I perfectly understand, let yourself feel it for as long as you need. I get it, it hurts too much to put into words. Cry if you want to, throw a tantrum or two. Let it all out and in time, it will slowly start to fade to the backround. Surround yourself by friends and by people who love you! I hope it gets better and please don't kill yourself you are special and have an amazing purpose in this world (: Hope I was of some help, just hang in there, it will all be okay (:

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  4. KaleidoscopeMind - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by KaleidoscopeMind Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:54AM

    You will have to let go eventually, but you don't have to do it alone. She obviously has some things to sort out, but please don't give in to your harmful thoughts. You are more than that. You WILL persevere.

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  5. sintobus - 22-25 years old

    Posted by sintobus Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:53AM

    You will get over it but I won't lie it will take a few months even a few years depending on how long it personally takes you. You are addicted and obsessed and are in shock from losing that. Sadly ONLY time can fix that and you need to just move along the best you can.

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  6. crazychica369 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by crazychica369 Jan 11th, 2013 at 2:07AM

    It will go away in time.

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  7. rodrwill1 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by rodrwill1 Jan 11th, 2013 at 1:04AM

    You'd be surprised what you can live with. You'll be fine. Just keep your brain busy.

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  8. PixieCutLover - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by PixieCutLover Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:55AM

    Certainly shows that gay people do in fact fall in love. All anyone could do is hang on and tough it out, I have no idea the reason unless it's another person she's taken off with.

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  9. assyrianpride - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by assyrianpride Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:58AM

    of course gay people fall in love. have u been living on another planet or what?

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  10. PixieCutLover - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by PixieCutLover Jan 11th, 2013 at 1:00AM

    Wish I was, a lot of people think they don't and it's all based on lust and some sort of perversion, you are aware of that aren't you?

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  11. curress - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by curress Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:53AM

    Yes, take care of yourself..Please!!

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  12. hughgo - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by hughgo Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:53AM

    ohh boo hoo boo hoo wah wah wah

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