I am falling in love with a 21 year old young lady and I am 46. What should I do to build this relationship?
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Posted by deltadon Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:04PM
have a chat with her dad's baseball bat
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Reply by bannaman714 Jan 10th, 2013 at 9:27PM
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Posted by damselfly Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:19PM
You are probably older than her dad. Leave her alone.
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Posted by FoggyKoala Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:03PM
Buy her a porsché.
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Reply by devilwife Aug 22nd, 2012 at 10:25PM
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Posted by realAH64driver Aug 22nd, 2012 at 2:22PM
This would make more "sense" if she was asking the question. The fact that a 46 y.o. "man" (and I use the term loosely) is asking this question is de facto evidence that YOU are NOT MATURE enough to be in a relationship with the young lady. For once in your life, stop being selfish, man-up and walk away. You are fishing for affirmation for something you should know is wrong. Further, you are (and rightly so) "out of the loop" and trying to gain insight and information, on here, from other young people to demonstrate to her that you can "relate" to kids her age and to also use the info to manipulate her, even more than you already have... You just ran out of ammo! Young ppl., please, DO NOT aid this pathetic person. Get a life, LOSER!
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Posted by LakeMist Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:15PM
lol... another guy looking to relive his youth by hanging with kids. Gotta love it... the male menopause syndrome. What a goofball. hee hee hee. He'll get what he deserves by setting himself up to be used. =p
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Posted by angelinafreckle Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:06PM
She will outgrow you quicker than you can say "fifty shades of grey" ...
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Posted by kessie Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:27PM
find someone a bit closer to your own age not your kids age
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Posted by Braunham Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:05PM
Take your vitamins and don't ever use any phrase that begins with the words "When I was a boy...." or "In my day...".
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Posted by Riffster Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:44PM
there are plenty of relationships that do make it with a large age difference. It's not guaranteed but they do work. Marilyn Manson is one example I believe
The worry for me is you're asking advice here. If you're 46 then it would be hoped you have at least an inkling of how she feels and what makes people tick. If you don't then that's of greater concern than the age difference.
But I wish you both well and much happiness
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Posted by tommytee47 Aug 22nd, 2012 at 5:29AM
you need to walk away from this one. Why would you steal her youthful experiences she still has to face. It isn't love.....cuz if it was then you would let her go so she can have her chance at real love.
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Posted by open1010 Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:15PM
You are NOT in love.....enjoy while you can.
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Posted by BigJohnnyNC Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:10PM
You can go to Toys R Us on your first date.
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Posted by laniferous Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:13PM
Ive done this, as a 20 yr old. It wont last, believe me.
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Posted by zbignue Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:07PM
Have your daughter ask her about you.
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Posted by wickedties Aug 22nd, 2012 at 1:06PM
While the 'young lady' is probably quite mature the bottom line is she is still growing as a woman. She is 21...finding her way in life, finding herself; her identity, learning about herself, het wants/needs/sexuality. You on the other hand are 46, you have lived life, experienced much. Probably know who you are .... you are thinking about retirement, your health as you age, perhaps you are a father and are thinking about their future vs she is thinking about hanging with her friends, what career she wants & is probably working towards it. You are at two different points in your lives, therefore, how can you grow together as a loving couple? how could it honestly last??
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Posted by IMAGINATIONATWORK Aug 22nd, 2012 at 4:55AM
U r just infatuated with her youth
The novelty will wear off
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Posted by Gabina19 Aug 22nd, 2012 at 12:05AM
Your only in love with what you see looks good.
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Posted by DearJulian Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:07PM
That is quite an age difference. Offer to put her through grad school.
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Posted by fishsweeper Aug 21st, 2012 at 6:03PM
Well, seeing as she already has a cradle, why don't you try building a jungle-gym?
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Posted by xwendymerillax Aug 26th, 2012 at 12:10PM
I dont know...I wanna meet a guy your age but dont really want a big commitment at this stage in my life so I cant really answer - be nice to her? understand the differences between you and play off them?
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