It's natural, dear. It's the poor, mistaken subconcious belief that every young girl has at one time or another, "My love is strong enough to change him". Let me right here and now, proclaim Bullshit. If he commits freely to you, he's yours.. otherwise he's a huge heartache and a waste of good love.
Well reign in your feelings a little...just know in the back of your mind what he is like, enjoy his company, and then if nothing happens you wont be disappointed.Be prepared to be a notch on his bedpost if you do sleep with him. It may be a emotional rollercoaster to like this guy too much, if you know he wont invest any deep feelings.Maybe you can become a pla<x>yer to play with him.
You are too old for games or a newborn. So get a grip and <br />
Abort the thought of this womanizer. I know that its hard.
it sounds like you're setting yourself up to get hurt, don't do that, the more time you invest the more difficult the inevitable outcome will be
It all depends...If he's really a pla<x>yer, run very fast in the opposite direction, but if he just hasn't made a commitment to you because he's not ready and you're willing to wait for him to catch up, he may be worth waiting for.
Omg.Shake it off.thats like forcing yourself to believe in Santa again.Allow yourself to be unimpressed.You're just bored.
Haha me too
Yes, it is...
unless you live for pain...
Do "pla<x>yers" really court women or do they just play them?
Well I'm a guy and I don't know. All I know is, if you know he's messing with other women you always have the option to move on. Trust me it won't kill ya, Plus you may be missing out on one that will not "play" you... what ever the hell that means.
It's not stupid, it's just not gonna work
I hope that for you, I've been there so I understand..Who knows it just may work for you, people do change..
Oh wow. I didn't know you were thinking he would change! No, no, no! People don't change!!!
It really depends on the person, sometimes they do
Ya, it is. Toss him before your feelings cause you pure misery.
Play with fire....you'll get burned.<br />
Like is one thing, but if you start falling for him....your could be in trouble!
Probably, but if you know your in trouble in advance...good. That doesn't mean you can't have fun!
glad you like it ;-)
Yeah, it's stupid, but we always like the bad boys and I don't know why. I wish we didn't.
Is he courting them... or simply sharing good laughs
If you're okay with being another notch on his bed, another hunk of meat to be used and tossed to the side for a fresher cut..then I guess whatever makes you happy..
Stop yourself before you fall any further.. speaking from experience
yeah well don't let it get you stuck 6 years down the road... hugs. still.. get out while you can. It will just break your heart more later if he chooses someone else
It's not a good sign
You should probably just move on :(
Otherwise it looks like more hurt you don't need.
We are good at that.
In a same sitch!!! <br />
Ask him who he likes