Don't you think how he decides on that issue should be his decision. By making decisions for him you are acting like his mother.
Of course these things can work out. The age gap creates issues, but every relationship has them. Forget the haters - you can totally make this work.
Enjoy what you have to as long as you can and consider yourself lucky.
Enjoy the relationship you are in. Has he mentioned wanting children? Some men do and some don't. You could always have your eggs frozen if you think it will get that serious. Let him decide the kind of relationship he wants. If it is going well then don't spoil it.
Lets work this out
your 48 he is 26
now your 68 and he is 46
He walks away and find a hot younger lady
I read it twice & saw ya profile
1 - You know he wants a family
2 - You know you can't bear kids @ age 48-50
3 - You have the energy levels of @ 30
4 - We both know how media say several female stars @ 50+ are sexier than most women in teens, 20s & 30s
I'm 64: I only ticked the box I did cuz all my life, folk gave taken @ 12 yrs off me
In fact, as a volunteer in a charity shop, in my 50s, a late 20s megababe refused to believe I was over 30
I go to gym 4 times a week & am often the only man dancing with a circle of megababes, who ask for photos to be taken with me in group hug & 1-2-1 kiss & cuddle
Last summer, when walking by our local college, 9 lads ran past me & 1 stole my cowboy hat
This ex-champ MMA teamster challenged all of 'em to fight, told 'em where I was going & gave 'em 5 mins to bring da hat back B4 callin 999
OK: summer ideal to google best free online dating
& to post pix here
& that's not a crafty ploy to take advantage: I'm half Irish & will talk to anyone
OH: I'm sure ya profile aint got hometown?
& I'm sure ya aint filled in the extra details that help folk get to know ya
Search youtube @ flirting & confidence & MMA tutorials
Edot: I'm the only reply ya didn't insert a reply to & mine's the most thorough
But my email address is for any reader who neds it: as an old sales rep, I'm an incorrigible opportunist
Talk about it with him in depth without leaving anything out and if neither of you are willing to break it off then you're love is stronger than the age gap will ever be and I envy you. I wish you both the best of luck no matter where life takes you.
I loved reading your post . I am in a marriage and have 4 school age children . We have no relationship and no sex but stay together for the kids . I met someone who is 28 3 months ago - I am 48 . It feels like there isn't a day between us . We both are so happy together - both sexually and personality wise . We don't get to see each other more than once a week as we have our own lives but I am so scared as to how this will turn out and end - as it has to . He has no desire for children yet but I suspect that with his sexual energy and exposure to young girls he will soon meet others even if for a trivial relationship whilst no match to what we have . How do you deal with this ? What do your friends think and how long have you been together ? I feel helpless but ironically he is so devoted to me . Any advice ?
I don't see any problem with that relationship I love someone with age difference myself... I am 28 seems to be around 30s
Do you seriously think that it will last much longer???????