I'm sure he is not faking his love for you, it is genuine and sincere. Although his profession of love may be different than you're use too, his love could be of admiration and pride, to know someone as beautiful and sweet as yourself.
Hello TheSteeleBeast, :) Thank you for your message.. Honestly, I know its been more than 8 months ago when I asked the questions and sorry to say that I only came back here now.. I love him so much , :( Its almost 2 years now and he and me still felt these love.. I am loving him and his money is not what I am after for. I never accept any of his help financially, he is very nice and kind man and he understand me all the time. Theres nothing I could ask for, but to have a life with this man.. :)
What are you thinking, child?
Sounds to me like he's either using you or trying to turn you into a trophy.
I understand your concern thequacker, :) Whatever it is, I am very proud to met this man.. I may be too young right now, but I know that I love him.. I will face the consequences, whatver it takes, just to be with him soon.. :) Thank you..
It could be love or just lust. Only time will tell.
i understand ,, but I am willing to wait .. He and me are still taking the limits now, no sleeping over with each other .. I am currently soon to graduate next 3 months. and I am willing to wait no matter what it takes to finally see it.. thank you for the comment :)
18 year olds fall in love with anything that moves. I just hope that he's honorable enough to let you down gently.
thank you .. :)
I knew a young woman your age who had a 63-year old boyfriend...he bought her many gifts including a puppy that she refused to take proper care of (he took it back where he bought it), clothes, and even purchased a car for her (insurance was too expensive as she had several accidents so he left it in his name & let her drive it)....one day they were "together" he had a major heart attack and he died on top of her. She called 9-1-1 and they took him to the hospital, dead on arrival... the girlfriend had to tell the story of how he died (during sex) to the paramedics, the doctor in the emergency room, the police who investigated, etc. She was mortified and then the man's wife, whom he was separated from, came and took the car back because she was the widow and was entitled to it. But the most interesting part of this story is that the girlfriend found out she was pregnant a couple months later, she has a child to raise and no father and no support.
If this baby is the old mans and she can prove it she or the kid has a right to part of his estate.
Her grandmother said that in order to "prove" it that they would have to exhume his body and get a DNA test done...and that it would be a big hassle with the man's wife & family to do so. So it never got done, the child is 11 years old now.
They can do DNA testing between your child and one of his other children if he has any.
It's not my child, and the mother doesn't want to cooperate with any type of testing even if it means she could get survivor's benefits or whatever...she has used her children to manipulate her family for years.
CherokeePatti, thank you for your comment,. I understand and I respect your points.. I know that things like that is coacient to my situation, that could possibly happen on me.. Like I could get pregnant and no father to support my baby because of gettng widowed.. It really dont matters to me, I did love him, not because of his support or money or finances, I did loved him because of being who he is. We cannot just always act like a scientist who always predict the possible outcome.. Important for me now is that I know I am happy having this very loving man.. :)
why did u ask this question whether he's faking u or not? that means u've a hesitation within urself regarding this huge age-gap.. isn't it? ask ur own conscience once again, think logically about ur future and plan accordingly. whatever will be ur decision, stay firm to it, and be ready to face the consequences - positive or negative.
This question I wrote was about 11 months ago, and I only came back here now.. Those time I was so unsure if he is real or not , but then I finally know now that we love each other .. :) 2 years (no sex) and just making each other happy..
He might love you i dont know. But im assuming you're old enough and mature enough to see if he really cares or just using you.
You know what? :) During those time that I asked this question above, I was so confused of my feelings, but I finally know the truth now.. Its 2 years now, and I know I love him and he love him. We never did sex and he is willing to wait for me. Either I'll choose him or not, all he wish is to see me happy.. :) And its enough for me for now to know he is serious with me.. :)
Well thats good.
thanks .. :)
He must be a billionaire and even that isn't enough in the end. Too much of an age difference.
He is not a billionaire, nor any rich man.. :) But he is rich with good attitudes and amazing qualities.. :)
It sounds like all these people don't want anyone to be happy, If this old guy makes you happy and treats you good stick with him. when a guy reaches 60 he sure is going to be turned on by a sweet young thing but he's also going to know that real true love is just as important. This guy might not be around too much longer so if you leave him because of what other people say you may be passing up something that you will never have a chance at again, If you deceide to have kids just plan ahead and make sure he wants to and has a way to give you support when he's gone. Guys as old as 30 still don't realy know what the **** they're doing so a 60 year old has been down through there and is more likely to realy love you.
A 60 year old is experienced enough to pull this off for his own benefit at the expense of an innocent 18 year old girl.
Thank you .. :) He is everything for me..
young & stupid!!!!...you must have a pretty f-up dad.
I may be stupid yes, but I am not a fool person not to know how I feel.. :) You can say anything about me, or judged me for this situation I am in that horrified you, it dont matter. Important to me now is that I am willing to take all consequences to prove you guys that this love is never a mistake.. :)
He probably loves you dearly and will sincerely treat you as the queen that you are. He is at a very special age, he has been around long enough to learn the most valuable lessons and will do right by you..keep him, please him you won't regret it
I would imagine an understanding that having children would not be part of their romance. They may have deiced just to live for each other and enjoy together whatever time they have together
Thank you Shantilla.. :) I really appreciate that ..
Merry Christmas to all of you:)
Yes arnorose ,Im inlove with my boyfriend we have the same experience but were not in the same age...In your case if you love that guy and he loves you also why to deprive your self to be happy??Follow your heart thats where your happiness is...I know I'm too young for him,we have the same age as his daughter. I love him so much and I'm willing to marry this man. Im happy with him;)...Try to seek guidance to God if you are still in doubt..He will guide you..Godbless in your relationship..
wow, you do too feel something like this girl? :)
Thank you ..
Was you Father around Growing up? Seriously My X-Wife Left me for a much older man and I was 9 1/2yrs older than her she is with a guy that is twice her age she actually got pregnant so I guess she could not hide that one and we are no more I hope you realize this guy has been around and would be able to make you believe anything He knows many ways to get what he wants by now if not He is a extremely slow learner anyway I hope he does not hurt you in any way you should try a guy that is more stable around maybe 27 or around that age. You may be mistaking a missed relationship with your Father for Love. I Hope the Man understands this or I think he may be a big pervert that misses his Youth, sorry just being Truthful I am 43 and I cannot see myself with the Girls that daily hit on me and they are in their 20`s that is like I would just be a fling to them and I want a Friendship that may turn into something else to often when we are young we jump into things too fast and in 6 months the heat of the moment (Passion, Lust) is gone and someone gets hurt.
i understand .. But thank you for your comment :)
I'm a 58 year old man, if I knew of anything I could do to have sex with an 18 year old again that loved me you can bet I would do it. He may or may not love you but he no doubt loves that you are so young. In case you haven't noticed his parts aren't all quite what they used to be. Be careful sweetie, keep your emotions for this man highly guarded.
Dont worry sir, thank you.. :) I am being careful always ..
Look away for others on the side. At 60 you are not on the same keel. People at this age get old very very fast. tI won't last for more than 5 or 10 years at the most. Don't get blind sided. For heaves sake don't get married.
I'm 60 myself and I'd have to say this just doesn't fly with me. Its just wrong in my book and I'm no prude.
hopefully it's love like a grand daughter, you'd be crazy to think or act otherwise
I'm 42. If I love an 18 year old, the last thing I'd do is have sex with her. I would want her to find a good man to have children with that would help her through the long nights.