You may like her when you meet her. ***hugs***
Since your father is no longer with your biological mother, see whether the Court will forbid your father's girlfriend from interacting with you. The Court always makes its decisions, ba<x>sed upon what represents the interest of a child. Your father's girlfriend has no standing in the matter. She is just an outsider, whom your father happens to be sleeping with.
Then don't see her
What is legit crying?
Opposite of illegitimate crying.