I am looking for answers from MEN!!! ---> Why do men get scared off when they encounter Virgins?

What is so wrong with being a virgin older than 16 years old. Im 27, and every man i have encountered gets scared off once i tell him i am a virgin. I could be ready to get with him, and being honest, i tell him what i am - and it ends the relationship entirely - either he acts so stupid i never want to see him again or he just disappears (which only happened once). ------- couldnt really pick a BEST answer so selected the one with the most votes... I voted on them all, BTW, and gave out gifts to those who answered it.

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'Cause virgins have power to ward off the unholy? Next time check to see if their heads spin 360 degrees or their eyes glow red in your presence.

I see some possibilities, all ridiculous of course, but hey...we're guys.

1. A guy would think at 27 and still a virgin, there must be something "wrong" with you...i.e. basket-case or religious nut.

2. Might think you'd get too attached to him, being your first time.

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Other 10 Answers to I am looking for answers from MEN!!! ---> Why do men get scared off when they encounter Virgins?

TheOddOneIN	Posted Aug 10th, 2009 at 10:59PM maybe we think you will want to stay a virgen? Rated: +3Vote for this!
miguelote	Posted Aug 10th, 2009 at 10:59PM Forgive the crudeness but maybe they're experienced and are looking for an equally( or close to it) experienced partner. Rated: +3Vote for this!
zapbranagin9244	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 6:09PM to me it wouldn't matter if you were experienced or still a virgin. i wouldn't be scared off by it. if she is ready then i don't see what the problem would be. it could become a very fun and meaningful experience for the 2. sounds like your just hooking up with the wrong guys. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Tarquinn	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 10:18AM I wouldn't be scared off.... But yes, most men would be afraid they would not get anywhere and be forced to wait.... In my opinion, you being inexperienced would be fun.....I'd get to show off LOL Rated: +2Vote for this!
wackywilly	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 6:10PM No Idea wouldnt mind dating becoming involved with a virgin Rated: +2Vote for this!
Caliper	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 6:10PM If you made it this long and are still a virgin you must be saving yourself for that special someone who may end up your husband. Not often you can see how an event will play out, but that is usually the case in my way of thinking. Maybe most men are looking for involvement but not a final commitment Rated: +2Vote for this!
UnidentifiedHobo	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 6:10PM Perhaps those guys just wanted sex without commitment? Rated: +2Vote for this!
missunderstoodlif e	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 6:10PM i honestly think by the way men think going into a relationship with a virgin of your age would be like going back to highschool all over again and being pummled by the same old question "after she looses her virginity she'll probably want someone else so why bother?" but, thats only as i see it. Rated: +2Vote for this!
KavookiSoldier	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 6:10PM Just don't tell him you are a virgin, you'll only have to lie once. Rated: +2Vote for this!
KnightBlade	Posted Aug 11th, 2009 at 6:10PM WHAT?! I can't say as I ever heard of anyone getting scared off by a virgin. My only thought is that most virgins are very sexually inexperience like CorneaGenii alluded too. I don't think it should really matter though. If he's into you, it shouldn't be an issue. Personally, I think virginity is over rated - but my friend however, loves virgins. go figure... Rated: +2Vote for this!

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