STAY AWAY, seriously, it's a downward spiral
I'm not married, but that sounds perfectly natural; you can't help what you feel, but you can deal with it wisely. Just try not to worry about it too much, I would say, and don't act on it. Both of which may be difficult, but both of which are almost certainly preferable to throwing away your marriage. I mean, going to the extreme and supposing you left for this guy and he'd leave for you, what happens the next time one of you has a 'crush' on somebody else?
Leave it alone, are you going off? Would you be alright if your spouse had these feelings? if you do then maybe you should be divorced that way you could do whatever you want, but hopefully a married men would not take you on as a fling and respect his marriage. <br />
Boy, us human beings always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but after having that grass for a while the other side starts looking greener. if you need spice, add your own to your marriage.<br />
i know that you are a good person who is bored, leave the other person's marriage alone and work on yours.
Sounds like you and your husband need to have a good talk. Lay your cards out on the table. He needs to know how you are feeling. Then the two of you need to come up with a game plan to change some things. Change needs to happen or sooner or later he is going to get hurt...maybe even you. <br />
Have you even asked him if he's happy? I bet he is going to say no too. So it's time for the both of you to get real. Change needs to happen...start by being proactive rather than reactive.
Balance out what you really want but don't forget about the consequences as they will and do exist!!
sleep with him and ruin his life.
Do the right thing and stay away from the married man and get some help for your own marriage. There are already too many lives who have crashed and burned from lousy choices that hinge on a momentary feeling but the effects will last our entire lives. Im not sure what your marriage issues are but there is a better way. Emotions change all the time. I know a girl at work who threw her marriage down the tube for a crush she had on a guy at work. Her marriage split up and her crush didnt last now shes alone and trying to make it on her own.
FORGET ABOUT HIM. If he truly loved or at least cared about you, he would approach you as a single or divorced man. To pursue your crush will give you nothing but pain.
Sign up for the Ashley Madison website. Go have an affair. That website is free to women. Lots of horny guys on there who want someone to cheat with. <br />
Know this, if your child finds out you think this way or act on it, he will never feel the same way about you again. It will destroy his image of you. That wouldn't be worth it to me.