I am married I am just wondering how everyone handles their relationships to keep them fresh and control the fighting?
13 Answers to "I am married I am just wondering how everyone handles their relationships to keep them fresh and control the fighting?"
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by divorcing.
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Find new ways to have fun rather than going about arguments.
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Lots and lots of booze.
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Pick your battle and be willing to let go more than winning, so long as you had your say. Eventually he will see you are right, or maybe not even admit it, but you will smile.
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I had to run from it and get a divorce, I will tell you this much:
You both need to separate out the singular issues and work them one at a time!
Construing everything together never gets anything resolved and just fuels the fire.
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try new things, hold hands when out, do new adventures, lots of sex, creative sex, have fun and don't let life eg: bills work family screw things up. live your life as a couple
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Take some time to learn about and understand the ego. It's important whether you choose to acknowledge it or not.
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No fighting, I get spanked augment is over.
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Communication. Never go to bed mad! Even if you're up until 2am (done it) and have to work at 6am. An argument is a misunderstanding that can be discussed. For by understanding something from another person's perspective-you better understand yourself.
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I feel for you, just be nice and loving and understanding. having lots of couple friends and getting involved helps us a lot. but both need to understand and contribute into the relationship.
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You must be a rookie.All married folks cheat to keep themselves sane and happy at home.
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I am sure that can't be true
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If you have enough sex you won't have time to fight.
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lol nice !
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and sometimes it should be with your partner. Or at least with another person in the room besides yourself :-) LOLLike (1)
Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by motherofzeno Jan 10th, 2013 at 1:51AM
Try to find something ridiculous in the argument that you know both of you will laugh at. Watch how quickly the argument itself becomes petty. It's hard to do, but if you know that the fight will go nowhere it's worth a shot.
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