I am never comfortable talking to girls am a boy of 21 in d.u ,always concious in front of girls,please help/?

I think the only thing you can do is just try to be more relaxed. Stop panicking you will be fine, just try totalk to some girls, be there friend, you will become accustomed to there company. This I feel is the only way for you to be less self concious. Perhaps you should look at why you feel this way...is it just your personality.

Just try to be a little more outgoing and confident around girls, we don't bite!

Anyway plenty of girls love shy guys that are quiet... I do!

Talk anytime!

AvalonX

Yeah, definitely a smile. And remember: girls are human, and they could be shy too.

Look out what uncomfortable means! is it you lack self confidence-consult counsellors. Does your religious beliefs or traditional family comes in the way-Think like this-that I will never discriminate individuals on basis of Gender. Go and talk to your mother, your sister then even friends look straight into their forehead, don't stare or get scared- afterall we are all human beings.

I'm not sure if I should give you some clichés or not.
I don't know you (this is your first posting?), so it's difficult to say.

I do understand the search to you answer, at some point 'despair' gets the better of you and you just ask. Good.

I'm concious of myself in front of anyone, except children. Being concious isn't the problem. It's having confidence in yourself.

What gives me confidence is knowing what to talk about. If you start feeling uncomfortable, try to direct the conversation into something you do know. That way, you're moving your focus away from yourself a little and instead on something you're good at or know a lot about. You'll shine!
The opposite is also true, you'll be starting to fell less confident when the conversation is turning away from your 'field of knowledge'. Again, try turning things a little in your favour. Don't overdo it, people will think you're manipulative. :)

Please write something a bit longer than just this question about it?

Girls are people first and girls second!

Bottom line relax - and stop thinking of girls as aliens and instead think of them as people. Then start talking to them and taking an interest in them not because your male anatomy tells you too but because you brain tells you that they are interesting as people and you will find that not only will you gain many interesting new friends, but additionally you will probably manage to find a potential lover too.

The thing is not to get hung up over the "differences" between you and us. Many men make one of three mistakes 1. Talking down to us - females aren't stupid even we don't happen to know about all the same sort of stuff as you. or 2. Thinking we will be "impressed" by stupid stunts. We may laugh, but if you want us to take you seriously then showing a certain level of mature interest in us and having the ability to have a sensible conversation about something like films, music, dance, food, travel, style, in fact anything that we might be interested in will generally get you further than clowning around and trying to make a big "impression".

Assuming you don't smell and haven't go two heads or something weird a girl is far more likely to remember you if you demonstrate a genuine interest in her than if you are merely male eye candy.

what or where is d.u.???

you might practice on safe girls. do you have any sisters or cousins? also you could start off by talking to girls you aren't invested in having them like you. I find that if I focus on the other person and not myself I relax. Just start by saying 'Hi' and smile. Next add 'how are you today?' Then a compliement. Everyone loves a compliement. It can be anything from 'that's a pretty blouse' to 'you express yourself well in class' just keep it clean.

Relax, be yourself, and RELAX!

im EXTREMELY shy around boys and what i have noticed is if a guy smiles at me he changes my whole day, if he is helpful he is a gentelman, and if he is up front he is sexy. i dont feel comfortable when a shy guy looks at me for a long time so if a girl catches your eye, just introduce yourself. i know how you feel though...i cant seem to find anyone who would see me as attractive so i dont know why i would even bother, i dont know why you feel held back though, maybe the same feelings.

I believe that you first need to get comfortable with yourself. When a person feels the way you do, it's sometimes because they are judging themselves in a way they believe the other people will judge them.

So step back and get to know yourself and like/love yourself for the unique, special person you are. Once you do that, you can talk to any one. (this is just my opinion though)

trust me, girls are just as nervous about talking to guys as you are talking to girls, except guys are 'meant' to be the ones who approach first!....is there a particular reason why you feel concious and uncomfortable or is it just girls in general? my advice though, would to be yourself because at 22yrs myself meeting a guy who's not afraid to be himself is something that would attract me. You need to learn to be more confident in yourself aside from girls and that will help in the girl factor. Or you can just one day suck it up and go up to a random girl you don't know and strike up a conversation (you've got nothing to lose if you don't know her) and pointers on how 2 go over...don't say oi or anything like that be polite, girls like a gentleman...just politely go over and say something like have you got the time, or do you know where 'so and so' is and then take it from there, compliment her and BE YOURSELF!