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I have no one to talk to about it...I just found out my dad has congestive Heart Failure and his Heart is enlarged and my husband looks like he has gained 150 pounds over night they are not sure what is wrong with him my heart is breaking my Dad is almost 100 and I know he won't make it and my husband gets worse everyday...I as sorry for putting this to you but had to talk to someone..... I do not want pity and I am not feeling sorry for myself I am just hurting right now nothing more nothing less.. Thanks for being here... V
vickieprince vickieprince 51-55, F 39 Answers Feb 3, 2010

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My father died of liver disease and complications with Hepatitis C. The most you can do for then is love them all you can. Tell it to them every day, hug them, and give them your entire attention for anything they have to say. Sorry to say, but that really is the most you CAN do. Do the best to help him die happy.

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Thoughts with you V .

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*hugs*<br />
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My thoughts are with you my darling!<br />
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*hugs again*

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that is sad. sorry that's happening to you.

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Hugs to you V! Im so sorry!! Im here if you want to talk!! I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers! xo

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V, I am soooo sorry to hear this. It seems like everyone these days are dealing with either one thing or another. My prayers are with you.

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Oh, vlow-<br />
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God bless You and Your Family. I wish I could be there to wipe your tears and give you hugs. <br />
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You and Your Family will be foremost in our thoughts and prayers tonight.

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V I am sending you all the love, hope and good wishes in this one big hug <br />
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((((((HUG)))))

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Sorry V! I know I can't help BUT I'll pray for you and them. Hope they'll get better. Try to be strong and take one day at a time. <br />
I lost my mother to cancer and because she was suffering soooo much, I asked GOD to please take her. I know this sounds bad but it really isn't. I miss her so so much sometimes I cry but as I said she is in a better place.<br />
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*********HUGS*********

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Sorry this crap is happening to you I hope your husband and father are better soon best of luck.

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so sorry , this is a phase of life .....god be with all of you . <br />
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*HUGS*

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I hope things get better for you and your family. We are in the same boat with family worries. My mum had radiation therapy and was given all clear and she mentioned a swelling in her neck. Next thing she was in hospital and has had most of her lympe nodes removed (on both sides of throat) and the jugular vein removed. (I think that is what it was) She has been in CCU for 6 days. <br />
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I am sure your husband and my mum will regain their health. I hope your dad pulls through too, it would be lovely for him to have a 100th birthday (provided he is not suffering)

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Lord Bless and hold you and your family through this. Hugs

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Big Hug...Life is a rollo coaster when you are down there in no other place to go but up!

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Of course your upset! This is a process that happens in life.....we are never prepared to lose a loved one. Do all you can now so you have no regrets when he goes. You will miss him awful....be good to yourself. <br />
When he goes think of the good times and forget the bad times. Be thankful you had him all this time.<br />
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My mother went when she was 90 in 2003. I miss her terribly. I am glad I had her all those years. Her mother went when she was only 5 years old. She never got over the loss never. Now she is with her and this gives me comfort. Even so our time here is so short and eternity is forever....... let your self cry when he goes, that is part of mourning. It hurts less as time goes on.<br />
Do not be ashamed to get help if you can't handle this time of passing on of your dad. <br />
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I am sorry you have to go through this. My heart and agape love goes out to you at this time!<br />
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One way I think of my mother is that she is on vacation <br />
having a wonderful time. I can think of her laughing____

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I will pray for their comfort and your calm peace of mind

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Hey if u need a friend I am here for ya, just message me I will do what I can too help u out. If this is any comfort too ya my bf's grama just had a serve heartattack yesterday and had too be medflighted too another state in another hospital she went through a triplebypass 2 times last night and she is in a coma and on a ventiler, they do not think she's gonna make it, but what I am getting at is someone else has got it worse than us, much worse than us. U know when someone does pass on to the next journey in life, that someone else is just being reborn into another journey that's not on Earth, but then there is another soul that is just being brought into this world!! Hang on to ur precious memories, if something does happen do not be afarid, I know they won't be with u here physically, but whereever u go they will always be with u no matter what then!!:] Smile someone like myself cares!!!

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be aggresive find a doctor, keep going until one answers your questions, don't stop, water wt gain that fast will cause many other issues if not treated asap

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Sorry About What You're Going Through, I Guess All Your Left With Would Be 'Prayer' And A 'Higher Power' Good Luck m8.

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I'm so sorry about your dad. So sorry. Anything else would seem trite, so hugs and hugs and hugs V.<br />
As for hubby, get him to a doctor asap. Fluid retention of any sort is no good, and depending on why, can be disastrous if not diagnosed asap. Good luck.

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