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I am struggling through paranoia and anxiety issues.Does anyone know how to deal with this ?

I've always struggled with this problem since i wsa a kid and i guess i never knew what it was bothering me until now.. and I see ive wasted a lot of time worrying or even thinking that other people are always looking or talking. Its gotten pretty bad now that its in my relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years.. and now were on a break because of it.. and I love him.. and i cant lose him over this.. not this way.. we fought for this relationship for too long.. and Now that i know what my problem is .. I need to fix it. I need to change myself and the way how i think of myself and others around me.. there has been nights were i lose myself completely and even attempt to harm myself but i always made sure i had to talk to friend before I was completely lost and gone. I have lost many friends due to this illness just cause i didn't trust them and ive said mean things as well. And it hurts .. but I dont want to live in the past or put my love in any more stress as it is.. please help

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  1. maxximiliann - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by maxximiliann Jan 10th, 2013 at 5:29PM

    You need to get professional care right now. With the right treatment you can lead a happy, normal life :)

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  2. Johnny88 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Johnny88 Jan 10th, 2013 at 4:22PM

    I think the greatest help for my anxiety is just becoming aware of my thought processes! just sitting with them instead of trying to avoid them or work them out! i think understanding these thought processes is the only way to freedom from them! it is a beautiful feeling when you realise how much energy you have been given to a thought that is no where near true and when you see it you like oh my god how did I ever believe that to be true!

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  3. JustMarji - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by JustMarji Jan 10th, 2013 at 4:38PM

    Talk to yourself. When you see you are getting out of control what ever it is.......talk to yourself. Tell yourself , scold yourself.

    You are strong kiddo. And stop kicking yourself when you do give into insecurity's and paranoia. If a person try's to walk through life kicking themselves in the a.s.s. it makes it difficult to walk on !


    In the long run though, you may need a mild mood altering prescription .

    Good luck to you !

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  4. StayStrongGirl92 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by StayStrongGirl92 Jan 10th, 2013 at 10:55PM

    I see where your comming from but honestly stop recommending that i need. Prescription. Im not about to put chemicals in my brain to stop me from protecting myself. I know what i have is a big insecurity but im noticing it. And trying to focus on this. I know its my mentality i need to fix. Not the way my brain functions. Thank you though.

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  5. HaLosgoLdeNhalO - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by HaLosgoLdeNhalO Jan 11th, 2013 at 5:35AM

    wow. maybe u need prescription more than you think. I thought the same way you did and it didnt get me anywhere. whatever. ur life. i dont give two *****. Thats what happens when u post things nationally for the whole world to see. You're gonna get ALL kinds of answers

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  6. wildbruce - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by wildbruce Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:52PM

    Talk with a licensed psychologist

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  7. StayStrongGirl92 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by StayStrongGirl92 Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:56PM

    haha nope. I dont trust them, all they want is your money and to drug you.

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  8. wildbruce - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by wildbruce Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:56PM

    they don't drug you, that's what a psychiatrist might do

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  9. Psilo - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Psilo Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:48PM

    If you have insurance-->See a Psychologist.
    If not then smoke weed.
    If you don't want to then drink alcohol
    If you don't want to do any of that then pack your things, You and I will go on an adventure to Candy mountain!

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  10. StayStrongGirl92 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by StayStrongGirl92 Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:58PM

    hahaha!! wow a very open suggestion but no to pyscologist, For i said the reason above. I do already smoke weed A tank you ;) and no to alchohal. Its not good to drink when your not happy of course. Hot mess. And I would Love to go to Candy Mountain!! :D

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  11. StayStrongGirl92 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by StayStrongGirl92 Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:59PM

    Its okay. I know what and what not to do in those areas

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  12. wecantoo - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by wecantoo Jan 22nd, 2013 at 1:08AM

    There is a Ground Breaking new therapy that will resolve this issue in 1-2 sessions
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    This is too important! Do it now and you can thank me later.

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  13. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by sumnerkagan Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:54PM

    you can put in a link. I do it all the time.

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  14. StayStrongGirl92 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by StayStrongGirl92 Jan 10th, 2013 at 4:10PM

    I emailed her. hopefully soon she will respond.

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  15. HaLosgoLdeNhalO - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by HaLosgoLdeNhalO Jan 10th, 2013 at 4:10PM

    Lithium and Zoloft. I'm being serious. Really works for me

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  16. StayStrongGirl92 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by StayStrongGirl92 Jan 10th, 2013 at 4:13PM

    No thank you im good. o.o

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  17. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly Jan 10th, 2013 at 3:46PM

    Self respect is the key. Stop putting stock in people that beat you down no matter how your DNA matches up to theirs.

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  18. StayStrongGirl92 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by StayStrongGirl92 Jan 10th, 2013 at 4:00PM

    I know self respect has a lot to do with change in oneself. Its just everyone has their own problems and This is one of many that is not easy to fix. cause im just lost ..

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  19. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by cpgnatly Jan 10th, 2013 at 4:02PM

    You have full control over your choices. You are the only person you can make into someone you honestly respect. Everyone else is going to do something you wouldn't.

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