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we broke op a few months ago, three weeks later he was in a relationship with a friend of mine... i got over that i guess.. but whatever i do, i keep thinking of him. although i don't have any special feelings for him anymore..
fleurvanl fleurvanl 18-21, F 9 Answers Jan 26, 2013 in Broken Hearts & Betrayal

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He will leave as soon as you find something else to dwell on.

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You'll find a new love and your old love will be out of your mind. Was he your first lover?

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he was the first one that was this serious..

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Was he your first?

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the first one that was this serious..

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Young love is a force of nature.

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I don't regret it.. but its terrible to think of him by everything i do.. because it makes me feel unconfident

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Forgive him to forget him and when you're ready, find someone better. Anyone is better than a boy who wants to break up with you and date your girlfriend. What a douchebag ... really ... he shouldn't have dated your girlfriend!

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thanks.. we've talked a lot since then.. but still i seem not to be able to let it go.. i'm hoping to find someone else to forget him, but i don't want to seem desperate...

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Dating, breaking up and seeing the boy you broke up with dating your girlfriend is traumatic. When adults break up they don't usually have to ever see them again. But you do and it's like picking the scab off of a wound every day that you walk down the hall between classes and in the lunch room and at the game or auditorium. It's horrible. And the fact that he picked up with your girlfriend 3 weeks after the two of you broke up makes it worse. I'm not surprised that this is taking a while to clear your head. You might even want to ask your parents to get you some counseling about this. I'm serious. There might even be a touch of PTSD in this situation. There's nothing wrong with a little therapy to get you through the rough spots in life. Good luck!

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thank you so much for listening, answering and explaining. it's very useful, i'll be okay :)

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You're welcome. I know I'm old but it seems like yesterday ... I was there. Take care Sweetie!

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old and wise ;)

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It takes time. Rather than isolating yourself, force yourself to mix with people. Forcing yourself to be normal slowly actually does result in real normalcy down the line.

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im having a lot of fun with my friends, but.. idk, i just keep thinking of him

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That's normal. Keep doing your thing. It slowly works out.

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You need to punch him harder...then he will leave :P

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you know how when you use a public toilet,,the putrid smell lingers for about 3 weeks,, well its the same thing,,,,bad **** just lasts longer,,,,

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