I cant get my girlfriend to moan or ne thing ,for me hearing them is telling me how great im doing, idk what to do help?
11 Answers to "I cant get my girlfriend to moan or ne thing ,for me hearing them is telling me how great im doing, idk what to do help?"
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Did you ever see When Harry Met Sally? If not you should. She's your GIRLFRIEND and she's SLEEPING WITH YOU -- she LIKES you. It shouldn't be all about your ego it should be about connecting on an intimate level. If that's not what it's about for you, you should do her a favor and move on.
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no noo she neeeds some singing lessons .Like (1)
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PUT A PICTURE OF YOUR X GIRLFRIEND ON THE NIGHT STAND BEFORE SEX THAT WILL GET HER TO MOAN, THEN TELL HER MY OLD GIRLFRIEND USTO TELL ME HOW GREAT I WAS MAKING HER FEEL. THAT MIGHT BACKFIRE THOUGH AND SHE MIGHT TELL YOU TO GO FIND YOUR OLD GIRLFRIEND. JUST TELL HER WHAT YOU WANT SHE MIGHT NOT KNOW UNLESS YOU SAY SOMTHING ESPECIALLY TO HER GIRLFRIEND
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This is going to sound crazy, but perhaps you should ask her what she likes? Not every woman is the same, you know.
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yea ik and i have asked her what she likes and shes told me,we have done all of them ,all i hear is her breathing heavy , ive asked her why dont i hear u . she tells me idk, then she tells me im fuc**** great in bed
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Then what's the problem? Breathing heavy is a good thing, and she told you she likes it. Some people just aren't as loud.
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A SERIOUS ANSWER ---- the thing is that you want to feel like a man , hearing her moan is a conformation of her being submissive to us , lost in pleasure . which is what we all want ... right
but the thing is , every girl moans differently , some shout ... some close their eyes and gasp . some will cling on to you tight ............ so take the sign of how aroused she is , no matter if she is moaning or not , point s " is she aroused "
if not , you got to make out how to get her excited , its a game of rugbyLike (1)
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joking , just try being a man ... be strong confident and meybe then she will moan in some way , every girl moans differently . some shout , some just close their eyes
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may be u r not good enough
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I would quit putting emphasis on the moaning... making love is a pleasure to be enjoyed by both, not a performance she puts on to make you feel like a man.
Maybe she just isn't like all the other girls you have slept with, and comparing her to them will not endear you to her. If it really is that big of a deal with you, then maybe you should just tell her point blank... if you can't be vocal about it, then I just ain't gonna give it to you no more - and at any rate, if I were the girl and you were always telling me that all the other girls did this or did that I would tell you to go back to them. How would you feel if she told you that all the other guys she was with had her screaming and they never had to ask her what to do?
Finally, are you with this girl because you want to be with her, or are you staying with her because as yet you have not "mastered" her?Like (1)
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im with this to be with her. i lov this girl with all my heart, she is my world , but i just dotn fell like im doing all that great in bed
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So just give it time and follow her more subtle clues. She may have a history that makes it difficult to enjoy sex in the ways most people do, but she must enjoy being with you or she wouldn't keep doing it.
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Maybe she is just quiet during that stuff. Do you notice her breathing changes at all? And just because she is quiet does not mean she isn't enjoying it. But pay attention to detail like her breathing, if it gets heavier etc. Pay attention to facial ex
pressions, and body movements. If you don't see anything, simply say something, like I want to make you feel good, tell me if there is something I can do. Or say I love hearing a girl moan, maybe that could help. If not just ask her, not while your doing it but when you are both chilled out. You don't want to make her feel embarrassed. Like (1)
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when were having sex her breathing does change , it gets a lot heavier but thats it , the night it happend i was giving it my all, i dont see ne facial expresisons or ne body movements, ive told her i lov when a girl moans bc that tells me that im doing good.
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Some people just aren't very vocal. Doesn't mean they're not enjoying it.
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lmao...I'm so sorry
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Have you talked to her about it? lol
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yea ive aksed her why i cant get her to do it. all the other girls ive had sex with b4 i had them doing it as soon as we started, well last night she told me she mas******* and said she moaned a little and i ask her why is it when i do it for you i dont hear ne thing, idk i feel likle i aint doing good enough
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Ask her what you can do to make her moan like she does when she pleasures herself. If she can do it to herself, you can find out how to do it.
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Posted by wwhirlygirl Aug 6th, 2012 at 10:53AM
tell her that she turns you on..tell her that she makes you excited and tell her that you want to do the same for her. Ask her if she'll let you watch her **********. tell her that when she makes sounds and moans that it's like having your own cheerleader and it makes you want to do more for her because she's showing you that she likes what you're doing to her..that she enjoys the sensations you're giving her. Ask her if you can use toys on her..maybe she needs to smoke a joint or drink a few shots to relax a little more. Tell her sex with her is something you really love and you want her to tell you if it feels good or moan because pleasing her is what you want to do. Tell her that her moans and sex sounds make you hot..that it's a major turn on for you and when you don't hear them, you start to doubt if you're a good lover or not.
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