I Can't get over a girl I'm good friends with, I liked for two years, I told her but she doesn't feel the same ..
6 Answers to "I Can't get over a girl I'm good friends with, I liked for two years, I told her but she doesn't feel the same .."
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Don't waste your time. You need to move on instead of obsessing.
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Seriously do, it may help your chances. Girls hate it when guys get over them. I mean she's not a malicious person for it but c'mon who doesn't love that? Someone being in love with them? Your building a dependancy. If she is my friend, then I can still love her. This hurts you. Yet you can't bear to be without her right? So she might start craving that attention. leading to some serious co-dependancy issues. Or: What might happen is she'll get sick of your company as if I was her, I'd feel you were only being friends with me in order to , one day, get in there as it were. She'll decide she doesn't want to be your friend, she might get a boyfriend who wont want you hanging about her, he'll get jealous. They'll argue. She'll, for the sake of her relationship, ask you to politely **** off out of her life. So extract yourself from this situation before it leads to further hurtful situations.Like (1)
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Good advice to get out, but im not sure that you'll want to help your chances with someone that's going to play with your affections.Like (1)
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Sometimes people won't leave our minds, no matter how hard we try. It could be infatuation, but then again maybe it's for a reason. If you told her a long time ago, try speaking with her honestly now. If she said she didn't like you recently... you may want to recede from her a little until you're okay again and can heal. The more you hang around her, the more you'll feed your feelings for her.
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thanks!!
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trust me its not wroth your time to love someone who dont feel the same it sucks you say you want to be er friend will it wont be the way it was before the feelings
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yeah :/
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i was friends with one they i said my feeling at it has not beenthe same
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Move on....Two years and she will not change...Get on with your life unless you prefer to torment yourself and be in misery....
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Probably need to cut ties, it's the only way in most cases.
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Yeah but I still wanna be friends with her tho :/ so idk .. thank's tho, Iooks like I'll have to try .. :/
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Posted by wraithorn May 28th, 2012 at 12:16PM
This is one of those times when it feels like life has punched you in the gut. It's going to happen lots more, you will need too learn to deal with it. Usually being totally open and honest will help solve many situations. Good luck man.:-)
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Reply by whatzlogin May 28th, 2012 at 12:20PM
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Reply by irdumb May 28th, 2012 at 12:34PM
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