Get over it there is going to be more time like this
Removing it and becoming heartless. That the sad truth. You won't feel pain but you won't feel love.
I am currently going through a very hard separation. I did something that I needed to do. I needed to yell at her, be mean to her, and loath her. I needed to be understanding so that I could get some acceptance. So I bought a diary kind of book. A book that was full of blank pages. I carried it everywhere. I wrote every feeling I had in it. I wrote every sad moment, every bad moment, just to get it out. Then, I noticed that they started to get further and further away from each other every day. Then I started writing things I understood, then finally, acceptance. <br />
So I gave it to her. She knew what it was and had never read it before. I don't even remember 3/4ths of what I wrote in that book. So that tells me, maybe I am stronger than I thought. Because if I can't think of even half the bad thoughts, then just maybe I am well on my way.<br />
Give it a try. You don't have to give it to her, but when you can't talk to anyone, or you won't talk to anyone, sometimes just talking and writing to yourself can help.
It's hard I know. When you feel betrayed and you can't get it out of your mind. It sucks! Prayer helps me and know that it is passing, sorrow may endure the night but joy comes in the morning. Remember that everything turns out for the good of those who love God. So the experience is to help you grow.<br />
I hope you have good times soon.
You dont. You let it break, fall to pieces and be a heavy rock in your chest for a while. Cry all you need to. Eventually, those heavy pieces of your heart will mend. You will find yourself smiling now and then. Eventually you will laugh again. takes time.
Sometimes you just have to cry until you get it out of your system. There aren't any rules about it, if it takes a long time, then it takes a long time.
You can't, and if you try to hide from your emotions...they will come back to haunt you. Cry it out, give it time...it will get better. =)
Whys your heart breaking? <br />
Prayer works wonders too...<br />
Kill your emotions... simplest way to proceed, first mentally cut your connection to your heart... then, expose yourself to a lot of heartbreaking scenarios, last but most important, deny the existence of emotions. It does not pain much if you succeed.
You cant :( time will make you feel better. I learn that the hard way.
phone your mother and tell her you love her
i think the best way is by finding someone new
I cry it out, like yesterday I was a wreck (obsessively thinking of my 1st lover) and thinking I'm mentally ill , like addicted to this person. And at the same time I would tear my guys heart to pieces, even tho he prob would never let me anyways.(friggin attachment disorders we suffer from sadly.)
but I take pros and cons into considering the best mate over time passing us all.