Now, Many times people will say "it's just a phase" and that's because the majority of the time, it is! It takes a long time to figure yourself out if you are having these feelings, (I know this from personal experience) To be bi or lesbian, you need the following simple qualities : <br />
A Physical attraction to women (And you seem to have this) <br />
And an emotional attraction (you have to like the way girls are.) <br />
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I am lesbian myself, and this took me a while to figure out coming from a christian family and Never being exposed to it much. <br />
But it is still a process even today. it can take up to 5 years to figure it all out! <br />
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I would suggest that you experiment, Not necessarily with this girl (Because chances are, she's not gay and you DON'T want to try that, trust me!) <br />
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And don't "experiment" At parties, because loads of straight girls make out with other girls at parties just because. <br />
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If you find yourself thinking about girls a lot, but have an EQUAL (key word, equal) attraction to guys, it could be a phase, or you could actually be bi. <br />
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I hope this helped!

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I agree with Stacey Night completely. At your age, it doesn't really matter. Just relax and have fun. You will figure it out when you are ready.

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Agree

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The label doesn't matter. Just live yoru life and what happens, happens.

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If you're being serious, it does sound like you are attracted to women. However I've known girls go though a 'Bisexual' phase because its the 'in' thing to do or they are just generally confused. No one can tell you,who you are attracted to, so if you feel the urge to explore a relationship with a woman, in my eyes, there's nothing wrong with that. :)

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