I Cried and then my mom cried after she scolded me, because i told her i Have problems , how to not feel bad?
I'm male early 30s. i have brain injury since childhood and i dont have career never had one and nobody helped me. Now i'm in my 30s and i'm trying to help my self but my parents still were in denial up to now trying to have this dream of me being a great business man or great career(even though i have never shown the personality for that. i'm jsut quiet never talk and dont have friends or nothing )
Anyways, i have problems with language and understanding, my speaking and understanding is very low i speak like a child and i can't understand when people speak adult conversations.
anyways, so my mother was scolding me today(like always)because i couldn't translate for her(imigrants)and i just started crying cause they never want to understand me that i have problems.
Then she started crying. and that make me feel bad too because i feel like it's all my fault.
Anyways, how do i not feel bad ? I feel like a failure sometimes i even get suicidal thoughts cause i'm a failure
5 Answers to "I Cried and then my mom cried after she scolded me, because i told her i Have problems , how to not feel bad?"
Posted by l3b25 Dec 31st, 2012 at 12:41PM
dude every person have something special ur not a failure u just need to find something that u can be good at lots of people without a brain injury and highly educated and yet they make a lousy business men theres alot of people with different kind of disabilities that have a great profession !! just dont give up its not easy i understand as hard as it gets the more rewarding it will be
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Posted by highlander1999 Dec 31st, 2012 at 12:38PM
nothen worse for parent than seeing child hurt . from way you wrote your problem. you are not stupard and very capable of comunicating i am sure there is some thing you are good at. you just need to find it.don t give up
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Posted by denabob Dec 31st, 2012 at 12:34PM
Success is being rich,or having a high paying job. Sucess is writing your own story. How you overcome this obstical that you have faced your whole life. Tell your story, write it down. Make sure your telling all the love you have in your life and look for positive. This is your life and your story. Make the most of it. Also, search your soul and search for God. You will find him. Life is about finding God. This life is just a journey to the ever after. Find God and believe in Jesus at the cross. Life can be better when you find God, for there is where you will find yourself as well. Good luck, hugs and prayers to you.
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Posted by Indie42 Dec 31st, 2012 at 12:34PM
You're not a failure! Maybe the fact that both of you cried is an indication your mom is finally coming around to your side. Don't give up hope. Talk to her. It also helps to get into a support group. There are ones specifically for brain injured.
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Posted by ilovenellyxoxo Dec 31st, 2012 at 12:27PM
You're not a failure. You're trying the best u can!
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