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I do not like that not calling people by their names thing. What is it with that?

Sorry I mean in Real life not oin ep - when people do not ever use a person's name such as hello John, how are you John, bye John. Just no name ever. I hate it! Is a cruel contrivance to dehumanize a person. Not for no reason did Nazi Concentration Camps give people numbers!
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Do you mean like nicknames?

Or when people avoid using there name.....if that yes that irritates me...Perhaps a form of belittleing someone.

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Posted Oct 9th, 2009 at 10:45AM
it,s because people come to ep to remain annoymous..
once u get to know someone and they feel they can trust u then im sure they will tell u there name...
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Posted Oct 9th, 2009 at 10:57AM
Not sure what you're asking koyptakh. Do you mean when people call you honey, sweetie and all that?

I don't like it much either. It shows a bit of laziness, in my opinion. Strangely enough I like hearing them in exasperated tone. LOL. But I like nicknames though. It's special.
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Posted Oct 9th, 2009 at 11:03AM
If you mean by first name, I actually prefer that. I hate being called madame or Ms. I am very informal and it just feels more comfortable to me to be called by my first name.
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Posted Oct 9th, 2009 at 11:27AM
I'm not sure you can fairly compare the Nazi's assigning numbers to prisoners to someone's innocent laziness. But if it bothers you, then tell the people you talk with often about your pet peeve so they will know.

For the people very close to my family, we often don't call the person by their name out of familiarity. It would seem weird saying "Hello, John" to someone who has been in my life for decades. It feels too formal.
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Posted Oct 9th, 2009 at 11:49AM
Maybe they don't know their name and are trying to cover it up........but yes, it's important to know people's names!
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Posted Oct 9th, 2009 at 7:59PM
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