I don't have a healthy relationship. What should I do to change it? Please help. See details
Okay, mind you I'm only 16, but don't let that make you exit out of this question.. Anyway, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 14 months, and our relationship during the summer isn't always good because my parents don't let me stay at the house, so I move in with my dad. Point is, we hardly see eachother. So when we try to see eachother and plans fall through, I feel like he guilt trips me and make me feel like crap. And yesterday, my dad brought this to my attention when he said, "Why are you letting him manipulate you? Plans fall through. Tell him to respect it and wait, if he loves you like he says he does, then he can." When I tried to tell him (boyfriend) about it, I got scared and weak. Wondering what he'd say or do.. Like he'd hurt me. Either with words or some other way.. I don't want to lose him. But I have to be treated better, more than what he's fixed already. He's trying to treat me better.. But I don't see a difference as much as I'd like. What do I do? Help.