I don't know what to do. Help?

Asked By: BarbiesAreFake 18-21, F 2 months ago

So my ex who broke it off 5 weeks ago tells me he has move on 10 days after we broke up, he tells me he never wants to be with me but he tells me he loves me. So tonight I told him I have moved on and am happy with talking to a new person (5 weeks for me, 10 days for him) because I told him that he is telling me he is going to kill himself, if he does its going to be all my fault. What should I do?

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Posted by BloodyMary82 Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:01PM

Stop contacting or accepting contact from your ex. Tell him you're going to focus on moving forward in your life as he has done. Then block his calls/messages, change your locks, whatever. Focus on you.

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Posted by morganonnet2 Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:08PM

My EX did some similar stuff for over 7 years. Mailed me the key to her house, in case I changed my mind. Sent home made goodies over to me via my daughter. Threatened to kill herself, etc. She is still alive and doing OK. Thankfully not bugging me or laying a gult trip on me any more. My life is so much better now that I am done with her.

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Posted by rolo65 Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:02PM

Don't play into that narcissistic behavior he is using to control you and move on.

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Posted by holehearted79 Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:02PM

Leave it alone its a guilt trip ppl who are suicidal just do it they don't say there going to

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Reply by BloodyMary82 Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:13PM

That's not true, people that commit suicide usually tell someone, and do things like giving away their belongings, preparing the way and all that. Do take his threat seriously, but less people actually do it han just threaten it. I suspect he's manipulating you too. When this happened to me, I called 911 and told them the sucker was suicidal so they dealt with him, not me.
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Reply by BarbiesAreFake Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:16PM

I told his mum
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Posted by SelfishIfIThinkOfMyself Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:01PM

It'll be his fault. Tell him if he kills himself he is just proving how pathetic he is. There is no being nice to anyone who makes threats and making threats isn't love. Will bet a lot of money that he won't kill himself.

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Posted by mynameisjockstewart Mar 4th, 2013 at 8:01PM

There's nothing you can do that would still be fair to you. He broke it off and he can't expect you not to move on. If he really intends to commit suicide (which I doubt) try to stop him, but don't lie and say you want him back unless you're sure beyond any shadow of doubt.

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Posted by KeasbeyNights Mar 4th, 2013 at 7:58PM

No, it won't be your fault. He's being a complete ásshole by manipulating your feeling by saying that. You're right for moving on, do so with a clear conscience.

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