Take the girly guy. He will understand your needs better that Mr toughy. And even tho he acts girly and has no job, he will keep your house clean and take care of you and your kids forever.
How about a sissy with a good job??
I'm the same way sometimes I think I should make a choice because somebody else wants me to make that choice. Are you really needing a man right now or are they really needing you?
Perfect solution: Dump them both and find a man who is employed and not an addict!!! Can I get an "AMEN!"
If you truly are paralyzed by indecision with this...then the answer is obvious - neither is the guy for you. When you meet someone that you really want to be with, there is no need for a pro and con list.
Take the lazy sissy guy the other one is shot to hell he's got more issues than being a sissy he's a sleazy piece of ****. If I had to choose between a sissy *** lazy girly girl and a hood rat I would hold my nose and go for the girly girl. I don't know why you would want either one really.
Choices in life aren't limited to black or white. There is plenty of gray in between. If your options don't work for you, keep your eyes open and discover new options.
Move on--find someone else and leave these two guys alone. Just the fact that you need to ask a bunch of strangers what to do indicates that neither choice is the right one. When the right one comes along, you'll know it!
look elsewhere..its a big world..:)