I don't trust my boyfriend right now, but I still love him...Help!
We have been together for 2 years. Recently I found messages between him and his ex (together for 7 years) and he said that a part of him still loved her and wanted to be with her (she wants him too but is married now). This is the second time that I have found something like this and i'm scared there might be a third. I have confronted him and told him I dont trust him. He insists that he loves me and wants to be with me but admitted that a part of him still loves her and wishes things had turned out differently. I've asked him to quit contact and he's agreed but im afraid it wont work.
I'm a smart woman and know that I can find someone better and that I shouldn't put up with stuff like this, but the problem is that I love him and don't want to lose him but I dont want him having these feelings for another woman. He's asking me for time and faith for him to deal with his emotions, question is do i want to risk waiting to see if he smartens up? or risk breaking my heart?