You can know a person for many years, without knowing who they truly are. For those who have a lot of friends who only know bits and pieces of who they are, but not know the whole person that they are it can get very annoying. I've started writing a book on myself so people who have "known me for years" can finally get to know me beyond the chapter of my life they happened to walk into it on. <br />
Most people tend to look at a person for the one side they see of that person, and because that is the side they see most of that person for as long as they have "known" that person for years in the loosest sense of the word; they think they know that person in the deepest sense of the word also. I used to be the same way until life circumstances opened my eyes and made me realize over half of the people who had been in my life for years, and that I had thought knew me well; didn't really know me at all. In many of those circumstances, I realized I didn't really know them as well as I thought I did either.... I was way off ba<x>se from who I thought they were.
No one really knows who I am.
he probably has secrets that he hasn't told you, and is frustrated with himself for not being able to, and is taking it out on you now
Well if I am right, then he is reaching out. You just need to be patient, and reassure him that he is always welcome to talk to you about anything. One caution though, I don't know your relationship, but he might actually like you. It happens with friends. It be opening that door, so make sure you are ready for it
haha fair enough :P
cause he is a drama queen or he is just really stupid