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Sweetie899 Sweetie899 22-25, F 11 Answers Jun 24 in Parenting & Family

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It's better to not have kids if you don't want them, rather than having them and not wanting them.

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you have a point!

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The choice is yours, but fear is the wrong reason to not have a child.<br />
Fear, like sex, sells. Most movies are about violence. Fear has always been the coin of politics. We are inundated by violence in "entertainment" and in the news media. We are bombarded daily with terrorist activities from around the world. Yet the reality is the world is safer today than it has ever been in the history of the world.<br />
A Ted Talk by Steven Pinker discusses the history of world violence and the myth that the world is becoming more violent. http://www.ted.com/talks/steven_pinker_on_the_myth_of_violence<br />
On a personal note, I knew a man in the late seventies who had fought in Europe during WWII. When he returned home, he had a vasectomy because he didn't want to bring a child into a world that could do the kinds of things that he had witnessed. Decades later, he regretted that decision, but it was too late. He missed out on the joy of children and grandchildren because of unfounded fear. <br />
I wish you happiness in what ever you do.

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go to mars, I heard the Aliens are quite nice

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That is an age old refrain. Your mother, Your grandmother and your great grandmother all said the same thing...somehow it worked out for them, and it will for you too,

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I don't want it to. Getting tubes tied when I get surgery in a few months

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I agree. The world is overpopulated. Having more than one child is selfish. Having none at all is even better.

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That is very true the world is over populated. Maybe I'll have just 1 but idk.. In still not sure..

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Its your choice love...

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If that's how you feel, there is nothing wrong with it. At worst, you will get older, have more money and more free-time to yourself, and all that. Just make sure that if you get in a relationship, you're up-front about not wanting kids. There are plenty of guys who don't want kids either, but just be honest if it's a long-term prospective boyfriend.

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A child is the most precious gift in the world...

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It is.. But I feel things may go down hill at any moment with today's society. I don't want to brig a child into such a corrupted society..

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Don't have kids.

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