Find a new circle, away from your present one

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Sometimes i think of comedies on TV and say to myself.."Now if that was in a sit-com,..it would be funny..<br />
I know its hard when depressed...People can make it worse and they can start to seemingly be the problem..But as usual the answer can be in how we choose to see things..<br />
Thats easy to say but for the depressed mind it might seem like really hard work at a time when it just wants to rest. But i still do believe its possible to laugh,.even in the midst of your darkest hour..<br />
Sure ,sometimes the laugh turns into a cry ,but at least you have feelings.<br />
If enough people stab you in the back...think of it as a free set of steak knives.<br />
They must have nothing better to do ,so at least your giving them a hobby.<br />
Remember also that theres a whole lotta people out there that are NOT stabbing you in the back.<br />
Especially those who have been in a similar situation..So maybe its a life lesson for you ,.and maybe the knockers as well ?? That type of thing has taught me not to actually care ,since i know my good points and my trivial faults as well..No-one is perfect.<br />
Soon as i gave up caring,.things got way easier and i felt much more free.<br />
Now i just care about the things that suit me.<br />
When it comes to issues and politics etc...i only care that i do my best..Whatever the outcomes,.i can just shrug it off since its not all up to me to save the world etc.<br />
Good luck with it..

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Haha thanks! The steak knife part made me laugh

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Reconsider. Chances are that you are feeling emotional and that everyone has not been out to get you. <br />
It could be that people haven't agreed with you or that they are trying to help in ways that you don't find helpful. Even if you have a lot of people in your life who aren't helpful or who are trying to cause you trouble, there are others that are really OK. <br />
Get perspective. Then decide what's real and what you should do about it. <br />
Hopefully, it won't be long until you are on your own, and you will have more say in who has the power to influence your life.

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I haven't turned on you. There are seven billion people, you just happened to meet a few lousy ones early on. Try not to be like them and things can get better. Especially if you look like Michelle Pfeiffer.

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Just walk to the beat of your own drum, hun, don't try to be something you're not just to please them, because that will not help anything! As soon as they see that you are a great person, AND an individual, they will find the best qualities and wonder why they would ever turn their backs on you in the first place! Don't make yourself into the victim, because nobody wants to be around the victim. Show them that you are the hero of your own story! :)

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Stand on your own. You only need you.

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