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I feel like part of me doesn't want to wait till marriage?

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Asked By: RomanceGirly 16-17, F  2 months ago

I'm 17 and when I was about 13 or 14 I made the choice to stay a virgin till marriage. I'm still one but recently I've been finding it harder to feel really strongly about my choice. It may not make sense but I do want to wait till marriage, but then I feel like part of me doesn't want to even though I know I'd probably regret it and I can't really see myself having more than one intimate partner. I would feel guilty if I didn't want to wait because as a Christian that's what I've been taught to believe so I feel I'd be letting myself and God down. Is it normal to feel like this?

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  1. SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Posted by SilenceEvermore Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:03PM

    Yes it is. Society and your peers are probably applying some pressure to conform to their way of thought, either directly or indirectly.

    Just stay true to yourself.

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  2. inanimateobject - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by inanimateobject Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:10PM

    to be honest i think celibacy is a stupid idea, you have to be sexually, emotionally and mentally compatible with somebody before you commit to marriage.
    but do what thou wilt

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  3. brianlamma - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by brianlamma Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:07PM

    You wouldn't be "waiting" if you didn't feel that way. Its normal.

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  4. Palejohn - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Palejohn Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:06PM

    Which part of you, your doodle perhaps?

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  5. 151rby - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by 151rby Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:05PM

    As time passes, we sometimes realize that our values and priorities need reorganization.

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  6. NucMarley - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by NucMarley Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:04PM

    i dont think it's about marriage. it must be about love :) where are you from?

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  7. RomanceGirly - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by RomanceGirly Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:05PM

    I'm British and live in the UK but I'm originally Nigerian :)

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  8. NucMarley - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by NucMarley Mar 15th, 2013 at 8:07PM

    don't do it before you dont fall in love, other ways you may regret.

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