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I feel so alone & left out, everyone has a best friend and i just have friends that have best friends. anyone else too?

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  1. Lushiro - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Lushiro Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:55PM

    Well you're in the right place...plenty of people here in the same position and circumstances as yourself, go explore and find people like yourself, or try harder to become more than who you wish to be in real life...weigh your options to your suitability.

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  2. 54n71490 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by 54n71490 Apr 3rd, 2013 at 3:40AM

    I feel the same. I have a lot of friends but there's no best friends. Sometimes it feel very bad, alone... I've tried to have best friends, but it's look like that they don't want to be. It's crazy when I really need a best friends.

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  3. PlanetC - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by PlanetC Mar 9th, 2013 at 3:47AM

    OMG people are dying and suffering alone including children ...get a grip , pull your socks up and contribute something purposeful to society,like build a dry stone dyke or clean up a riverbank with other studenty environmental volunteers,then have some sex and drugs and then tell yourself to SHUT THE **** UP and never to be so self pitieous again.

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  4. gunsnrose - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by gunsnrose Mar 9th, 2013 at 7:45AM

    This is the results of my rape that I feel this alone please tell me again how people suffer why don't you

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  5. PlanetC - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by PlanetC Mar 10th, 2013 at 7:37AM

    excuse me if i didnt deduct that from your posting on EP you have to take things on face value otherwise you wouldnt say anything.Im sorry to hear about the reason for your lonileness

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  6. salams - 18-21 years old

    Posted by salams Feb 28th, 2013 at 5:00AM

    So you should find a person who thinks you as her/hims best frend.

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  7. keeva - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by keeva Dec 21st, 2012 at 2:01PM

    Why do you need a best friend when you have friends. I can't say I have a best friend, but I do have good friends. I don't fit into many groups that my friends have and that's OK with me. If I want to talk with someone I have friends

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  8. gunsnrose - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by gunsnrose Dec 21st, 2012 at 2:03PM

    i only have about 3 proper friends.. ive lost so many or grown apart from them i have a few friends at uni about 3 more that i dont know too well yet and my boyfriends friends i now count as mine too but i came from such a big group of friends that it seems lonely sometime

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  9. keeva - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by keeva Dec 21st, 2012 at 2:07PM

    I'm so sorry you feel lonely. You know I have a small group of good friend and I'm most lonely when I'm in a crowd. Get to know someone you like one on one and see where it goes

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  10. Kal92 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Kal92 Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:57PM

    have lots and lots of friends....but not a best friend

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  11. Sol05 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Sol05 Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:57PM

    We can have friends for different reasons, you can have a friend to go shopping with, someone you go out/party with, someone you go to the gym with.. you can always make new friends, too, best way to make friends is to listen and share some bits of yourself.. don't force it and it will come naturally...

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  12. burstin2go - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by burstin2go Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:56PM

    Open yourself up gently to friends here; you will soon find the ones you can trust and that you 'click' with

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  13. jssp - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by jssp Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:55PM

    Yeah, cos I don't trust or close to anyone in a way it's better...

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  14. gunsnrose - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by gunsnrose Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:55PM

    you prefer it?

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  15. jssp - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by jssp Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:56PM

    It's sad but I am ok with that...

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  16. nicenlong - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by nicenlong Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:54PM

    only till you find comfort in your own thoughts

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  17. gunsnrose - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by gunsnrose Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:52PM

    but its so lonely

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  18. Emmanuel04 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Emmanuel04 Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:53PM

    get busy, put yourself out the, volunteer for a good cause, there is so much you can do. If only you can think less of yourself, you will find yourself

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  19. dskdw25q9n - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by dskdw25q9n Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:53PM

    It gets worse, when you are my age. But if you go to college, there is some good news. Most people make their best friends for life, in their early twenties, when they go to college and live in a college dorm. For that reason, most people also meet their spouse while in college. You are at that age, when you should be having the best time of your life; not the worst.

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  20. bmaninca - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bmaninca Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:52PM

    You can always make more friends and if you have friends now then why alone?

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  21. gunsnrose - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by gunsnrose Dec 21st, 2012 at 1:54PM

    its just really hard trusting people since a friend raped me, because they are like bbfl and i only have a few friends, i often get left out on plans for no reasn it sucks

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