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I feel stuck help?

Ive liked this girl for a really long time, all through school since middle school and now at the end of HS, but she doesn't like me back and i know this for a fact so why can't i let it go and move on? I try and try but something has a hold on me. What should i do? I know i should find someone else but its hard.
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Just do what you love.
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Posted Apr 19th, 2009 at 8:26PM
sounds like:

1. You need closure. You might need to have a full and final farwell.

or

2. You might be in LOVE. Not puppy love, real love. If so then don't let her go. Part of loving somone also means that as long as the person is happy you will be. Then that should be enough for you. Love her.
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Posted Apr 19th, 2009 at 8:27PM
I was the same way with a boy i went to school with, i wanted to be with him so badly for years and he didnt want anything to do with me..we kinda became friends/hung out with the same ppl but that was it, i was never anything to him and it hurt soo badly once i really realized that..i know its hard, i really do but you MUST find a new love interest...just try, get out meets some more girls..at least try, youll only end up in heartache if you keep dreaming about a girl you cant have...find someone who will care about you just as much as you care about her :)
i will you all the best hun, good luck, im rooting for you!
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Posted Apr 19th, 2009 at 8:57PM
I was the same way, 5th grade till graduating. Eventually I gave it once last try and failed. Once you see there is nothing you can do it is best to move on. Keep contact just encase but only time can stop the wanting. To end my story she is married to some guy now and time cured my wanting :)
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Posted Apr 19th, 2009 at 9:29PM
If she really isn't into you, it will be hard. You will think about her and think about her, and nothing will help. Start talking to different people and try to be as busy as you can. Go out with your buddies, play sports, video games, whatever you like best, and concentrate on other things.

Before you know it, high school will be over and you'll be in college. There will be so many chicks around you won't know which to choose first.
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Posted Apr 19th, 2009 at 11:19PM
be your own medicine. tell yourself taht u do have to move on, and work on it. it's not gonna be easy, but u have to try and help yourself up.
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 1:50AM
because your a teenager, and she is your fantasy, but fantasy later turn to reality and you will soon find yourself moving on in life in a new town new college, and she will be a memory, and you will eventualy find someone who will love you and only you and that will become your new fantasy and hopefully your reallity
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Posted Apr 20th, 2009 at 8:45PM
tons of fish in the water...
i used to feel like this over one guy. it lasted forever and i believe now the reason i felt like this is because i belived i had no one else to even consider feeling anything for me that i focused on him and only him until finally he seemed to cave, and lets just say, it wasn't the best relationship. it was a roller coaster. and i didn't come out on top. i came out crawling on me knees crying. but now i'm up again and never looking back.
i found my current boyfriend out of nowhere, i wasn't even looking. just stop looking and it'll come to you. i promise.
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Posted Apr 21st, 2009 at 8:25AM
you have to know you are still young and my advise is stay away from girls:women: till you have a job and can afford to marry one , or add islam to your faith and marry up to four if you can afford it thats what God intends , or wait till you get to heaven and you can do that there.
God Bless him my brother God Bless
Al Salam Aleik, Peace be upon you
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