To be real honest with you .. why on earth would you want to wait .. Look at what you are going through now !! I should not say that cause I've been there as well .. I guess it would depend on how much you love / care for her .. But there is a down side to this .. who's to say it will not happen to you again ?! PRO's / CON's Baby they must be weight out .. in order to do it again an will you be able to stand that crapp all over again .. good luck ..