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I found many hHighschool classmates online(facebook etc) and see their Success and i'm a failure, HOw to feel good?

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Asked By: joneDoun30s 31-35, M  4 months ago

So yea i went through my yearbook and found mannyyyy of my classmates in facebook and other sites. most of them are now married hapily and have great careers
and i have nothing i dont have a career and i never eeven had a girlfriend or date.

i feel like crap and then i might be homeless. how do i feel better about myself. and how do i get some success myself. I'm already in my early 30s.

I'm brain damaged so in my school years i was strguggling and especialy socially and in speaking. i never had friends and never talked because i am blank and i have speaking disability.. nobody ever knew they just bullied me including my teachers.

Anyways, so yeah i'm a failure and all myclassmates seem to have great lives.
i'm getting help in the disability place and housing place but still nothing and they dont seem to listen to me.

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    VoluptuousVix3n - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by VoluptuousVix3n Jan 5th, 2013 at 12:03PM

    Aww love I'm so sorry. Hopefully this will cheer you up a bit: People exaggerate on Facebook. They probably have a marriage from hell, a job that SUCKS and they're probably in debt up to their eyeballs. So don't believe all that you read cos most of its just out on their to save face and pretend. They probably envy your life cos you're commitment free whereas they're miserable and tied down, with loans mortgages, fees, lay-bys etc etc so don't envy them love xoxoxo

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  1. joneDoun30s - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by joneDoun30s Jan 5th, 2013 at 12:06PM

    Thanks. well i did try the university thing and i failed but i spent 7 years and so i have a big loan too. that i can't pay. But thanks for your message you're so nice

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  2. VoluptuousVix3n - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by VoluptuousVix3n Jan 5th, 2013 at 12:07PM

    Aww thank you so are you ;)

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5 Answers to "I found many hHighschool classmates online(facebook etc) and see their Success and i'm a failure, HOw to feel good?"

  1. Sharpie7 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Sharpie7 Jan 5th, 2013 at 12:06PM

    You're only a failure at living THEIR lives. They are a failure at living YOUR life, and that's the only one that matters to you.

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  2. TheSquirrel - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by TheSquirrel Jan 5th, 2013 at 12:04PM

    Some of those successes are not so success-filled. Give it a few more years. Sometime after forty, people shift more from competing to survival. By my age, we are happy just to still be in the game.

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  3. MyShaddow - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by MyShaddow Jan 5th, 2013 at 12:05PM

    You are honest. And so many of the people you see on facebook may seem successful but I can bet you an aweful lot of them are not really being honest with themselves.

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  4. AngieloveLee1985 - 26-30 years old

    Posted by AngieloveLee1985 Jan 5th, 2013 at 12:04PM

    fine.. start building ur career,..u can get any gurl anytime... but careeer will get u bread!

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