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I found out my husband likes to watch shemale porn, he swears to me he is NOT attracted to men, should i believe him?

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  1. passivepassion - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by passivepassion Mar 16th, 2012 at 2:48PM

    You girls are funny. Who are you attracted to? so what if he could be attracted to men.

    He is no more likely to find a man then a woman. Actually you should worry more about girls then guys.

    Strap on?? How funny, Immediately you think that he wants anal.

    you have been effected by too much advertising.

    It is like when they find a gay teacher. OMG we have to protect our boys from the ***!! Whatt about the straight teachers?
    Dont worry dear, he is perfectly normal..

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  2. Mellowmellow - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Mellowmellow Aug 13th, 2012 at 9:57AM

    First, I am a lady!...And I am attractive to the Man I am with. However, when I meant the man in my life over 12 years ago, Transexuals was never spoken about. The man in my life spoke only of females within a sexual content, and would never want to watch a movie with gay men in it. So, this new behaviour and takes some getting use to. Plus, if the relationship is going to work, understanding, honesty and fairness should be equal. Him wanting to experience a Transexual is something that is new to me, new to the relationship.

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  3. passivepassion - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by passivepassion Aug 13th, 2012 at 10:36AM

    I understand that you are upset and confused. We expect our mates to me only with us. I dont understand male sexuality at all. Maybe a little bit. He has fantasies and desires. Will he ever act on them. I cant say. I only hope that you can communicate well with him. I know a few transsexuals, and they get a lot of action from "straight" men. The guys just are getting a thrill, and go directly home to the wife. I can say that it may stem from a desire, or a way to find sex that they dont get at home. I play with guys and transsexuals for that exact reason. Juat a fact, judge me or not. I am not attracted to men, but I do have sex with them. I dont have a logical reason, just telling you. You may find this even weirder... Wife has no sexual desire..that is complicated. She realizes that I still do, and she does not want me to live without sex. So somehow, we agreed that I could go have sex with men, but no women. It is not a real solution, but it is keeping me from other women. I know this all sounds so weird. I know that many men want to suck a mans ****. I dont have this desire, but I do desire to be penetrated by one. I used to play strap on sex with my wife. That is over too. So what do I do. BTW I love she male **** also. I hope you can work this out. If i can offer any more words, let me know. peace

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  4. xxxBiCurCpl - 36-40 years old

    Posted by xxxBiCurCpl Dec 17th, 2011 at 7:21PM

    I am a bi-curious male, married to a bi-curious female so thankfully it is easy for us to discuss something like this. From my perspective, I am absolutely not attracted to men, just their *****. I would like to touch and suck one and have a man play with and suck mine. BUT, I am not interested in kissing a guy, caressing him or cuddling him, could not imagine whispering sweet nothings in a guy's ear. I don't know that I could "take" a guy but I might see myself giving him anal. My wife prefers anal over vaginal sex so when we have sex, it is anal unless she asks me to do her *****.

    Added to that, I just LOVE women, I get easily turned on by looking at other women (turns my wife on too!!). I love *****, BUT, to me the best of both worlds would be a hot woman with a ****. I love a beautiful face, with a nice pair of **** and a nice ***. When I want to come I have what looks like a hot looking woman to give me a blow-job, or a nice *** to put my **** into.

    My advice? Buy the strap-on and let him enjoy it with you. I guarantee your love life will rock. Do you let him go anal on you? If you have not, let him do it. My wife just loves it!! It's gotta be good. I bet he would love to **** your *** while reaching around to play with your "****".

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  5. Mechanical - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Mechanical May 30th, 2011 at 2:06PM

    I also like watching shemale **** & I'm not attracted to men.
    So I would say, based on personal experience, that there's a sound basis to believe these words which your hubby speaks are true..

    If he says he likes to watch shemale **** then in all probability he likes to watch shemale **** (Although I guess he might be playing some sort of practical joke on you ?).

    I'm attracted to shemales as well as females so there is reason to believe that he may be attracted to shemales in some way. At the risk of sounding too obvious perhaps this is the subject the two of you need to have the heart to heart about.

    Try to hear him out without jumping to too many conclusions. He may not understand too well why he enjoys watching shemale ****.When I fist stated watching it I was very confused about what I was getting off on & still find aspects of it rather puzzling.

    If its any consolation I believe some people just like looking at the pictures out of curiosity & feel no need to take take their interests any further. Anyway good luck & hope you manage to sort it all out amicably.

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  6. DarknessCalls - 41-45 years old

    Posted by DarknessCalls May 16th, 2011 at 11:49AM

    If it's only shemale ****, he's not gay.

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  7. debbieheart - 51-55 years old

    Posted by debbieheart May 14th, 2011 at 6:52PM

    I think you should believe him. I have many male friends that are sexually attracted to me, and genetic women, but have no interest in men whatsoever. It`s a curious phenomenon among streight men being attracted to passable transexuals. Even I, a transexual myself, find other transexuals very inviting. I don`t know if it`s the thrill of doing something considered a little taboo by society, or just plain curiosity. I know that the streight men that I have sex with all think of me as a woman but at the same time, want to be very secretive about it. It`s a very interesting question that I`ve often wondered about myself.

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  8. pc13 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by pc13 May 14th, 2011 at 8:07PM

    thanks for your response, but i'm really confused, you say you have sex with straight men and they see you as a woman??? what about the penis?! is this about anal sex that straight me like?

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  9. debbieheart - 51-55 years old

    Reply by debbieheart May 14th, 2011 at 9:11PM

    In most cases, the first thing they want is to suck me, then give me anal and oral. I think a lot of men secretly want to experience sucking a penis. When its attatched to someone who looks totally female, I believe it gives them a sense of security and they are able to justify it. Because I look and act like a woman, they become comfortable enough to explore their secret desire. That`s my take on it.

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  10. Cheekbone - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Cheekbone May 14th, 2011 at 6:13PM

    Yes. He likes it because he can relate to the sexual organ and the pleasure deprived from that organ while still admiring the typical womanly parts: the lips, hips, and boobs.

    You'd be surprised - this is actually a common fetish for men.

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  11. Tastycoc - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Tastycoc Nov 6th, 2011 at 1:20AM

    Hi PC
    You have nothing to worry about, he has clearly chosen you as the women he loves and wants in his life. As a man I know the kinky thoughts that run through our heads, if he is watching **** it is his release. You should support him and make sure you are satisfying him, keeping your mans balls empty is the best way to show him your all he needs. Suck his ****, give him lot of hot kinky sex and he will not look else where. If you turn off the tap, he will definitely look for a release else where.
    Men have simple needs that need to be satisfied.

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  12. trinity4neo4 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by trinity4neo4 Nov 1st, 2011 at 3:31AM

    My fiance of three years has just told me he has had sex a few times with men before over a period of 15 years. I am devastated i was in total shock and am now wondering about our relationship. I am meant to be marrying this man what if he strays with another man, he says he won't and hasn't while we have been together. I have always trusted him now i don't know what to do.....

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  13. truel22 - 18-21 years old

    Reply by truel22 Sep 10th, 2012 at 4:44PM

    let him b with men bcuz thats what he likes from time to time so protect urself he doesnt think it will b cheating if he sleeps with shemales or males which ever one he like smdh my x boyfriend was like that i think if u watch the four colored girls u will have a better understanding where men likes both sex could possible lead to

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  14. Candyapple1234 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Candyapple1234 Jun 23rd, 2011 at 11:24AM

    I found my fiance was in a gay site............I dont know what to think.....but it would xplain some pecular behavior

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  15. charne2010 - 18-21 years old

    Posted by charne2010 Mar 19th, 2013 at 10:58AM

    If u watch a another manman insert his penia where god did nt intenes for it to go which is ur rectum yu are a homosexual and God will deal with yu

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  16. anonaboat - 18-21 years old

    Posted by anonaboat Mar 17th, 2013 at 11:29PM

    I am a 21 year old male who recently started getting off on shemale ****. I am 100 percent straight and tried looking at gay **** to see if it would get me off in the same way and it didn't. I actually find it gross. I think its honestly just the **** that makes it hot. It started with me only watching straight **** with big dicks. I couldn't watch any **** with small dicks. Then I stumbled across a shemale video and I just got off on it. It was quite confusing and I still don't really have answers for it. Trust me you slightly feel ashamed when your finished watching shemale ****. At least I do. But I also have only dated girls my whole life and find them just as attractive as any other guy does and I still watch straight ****. I personally don't fully understand my own attraction to shemale **** and I feel bad for all you women who are having a hard time understanding your spouses. Just keep in mind the majority of guys who watch shemale **** are not gay and completely capable of being a normal manly husband. I can't imagine telling my girlfriend or wife that I watch shemale **** because you can't help but be completely and utterly confused when hearing your man likes to watch that. And if you want to really point the blame to something point it to the chemical balances of our brain structure and libido. You can't really decide what you find sexually attractive it just happens. I also can't see myself acting on that desire and don't think I ever will. The occasional shemale **** is good enough. And that one girl in this forum who is talking about suicide should consult a professional. That's really all I have to say.

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  17. Sadgirl420 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by Sadgirl420 Feb 15th, 2013 at 7:35AM

    My husband also watches shemale **** and frankly I've been planning on committing suicide since I found out eight months ago (while pregnant) I feel like I could never compare to a shemale, with their high heels and plucked eyebrows and make up and fake boobs, even if I did all those things I'd just look foolish and my husband says he doesn't want me to dress up like that when I try. He's been less and less interested in me as time goes on. When he has the choise of anal or regular he always choses vaginal... Our sex life was crazy and amazing and I'm sure that's why he married me but now he has these new interests that I can never fulfill. All I really want to do is die so that he can find a shemale and be happy and fulfilled by his parner. I am only holding on because we have a son and the thought of my son being exposed to that type of lifestyle at a young age is worrysome. It's sad that men can do a better job being a woman than me and that makes me feel like I don't deserve to be alive.

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  18. amcrebel - 41-45 years old

    Posted by amcrebel Feb 13th, 2013 at 10:37PM

    Your husband is NOT attracted to Men. He is attracted to all things feminine and female. He is not gay.

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  19. Notsurewhy2 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by Notsurewhy2 Jan 17th, 2013 at 1:46PM

    I think my husband may have met up with a shemale. I found email communication with one asking if they would be there during the time he was scheduled. Then I found a user name and password to a shemale sight. I went in and there was a review of a shemale. I was shocked and deeply saddened. I don't know what to do.
    Things don't add up. I've search bank records and no larger amounts of cash were withdrawn during that time, I've search phone records and although the review says called and text I found no evidence.
    It's tearing me up though.

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  20. timidtoo - 26-30 years old

    Posted by timidtoo Dec 14th, 2012 at 7:39PM

    I found out my husband likes shemale **** too. I was grossed out at the thought. But in being supportive I found myself enjoying it as well. Our sex life is great now!
    my only concern is that I find myself thinking about it all the time now.
    Is there something wrong with me?

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  21. misszaskia - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by misszaskia Dec 8th, 2012 at 4:48AM

    It's usually the over the top almost caricaturelike femininity we provide that men like. True homosexuals are seldom attracted to us at all. And vice versa i must say..... Only a few gay men in denial date trannies to hide or ignore their homosexuality. I usually notice that when men show too much interest in my male parts. For me that's an immediate turn off.

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  22. brittney8 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by brittney8 Nov 6th, 2012 at 7:11PM

    Instead of freaking out make fun mine is way into it and found out he's been with men so I opened up a new page in our sex life. Been trying to find a ts to have ********* with but it's hard. So I got a strap on he loves it.

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  23. Tranquility11 - 26-30 years old

    Posted by Tranquility11 Oct 29th, 2012 at 9:29PM

    I just found out my husband has been watching shemale **** too, and am honestly a little disturbed about it. I am a very openminded person and half of my family is gay (men and women), so have no qualms about that. My issue with it is that it significantly affects my sexual attraction to him. We've had a rocky relationship for the whole 10 years we've been together. I guess I'm just by nature more conventional when it comes to sex. I don't judge people that like it freaky, and I'm not judging him either. If thats what he likes, that's great, but it doesn't turn me on at all and I don't want to spend my whole life married to someone who doesn't turn me on.

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  24. LaMartell - 31-35 years old

    Posted by LaMartell Sep 29th, 2012 at 6:00AM

    YEAH I LOST MY MAN TO ONE OF THESE ******* SHE IS REALLY PRETTY LOOKS LIKE A MODEL AND HAS BIG FAKE **** AND A BIG **** AND SHE HAS A BEAUTIFUL FACE NOW MY MAN WANNA TRY IT I DONT THINK IT WAS A THREAT TO OUR RELATIONSHIP BUT IT WAS! HE SAY HE IN LOVE WITH HER NOW MOVED OUT LEFT MY BLACK REAL FEMALE *** ON THE STREETS AND HE FILE FOR DIVORCE WE HAVE NO KIDS NOW HE IN LOVE WITH A FAKES *** SHE MALE THESE ******* WILL TAKE YO MAN AND NOT CARE ONE BIT OH AND THIS SHE HE IZ MEXICAN THE *****

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  25. analadicct - 31-35 years old

    Posted by analadicct Sep 27th, 2012 at 5:43AM

    I love shemale **** more than regular ****, no harm in that at all keep it up!!!

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