Would you do yourself?<br />
Theres your answer.
Why not just take the smitten ones? Why try to conquer the uninterested? If they don't see it and someone else does, take someone who sees it.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, thus the reason for different reactions from different men. Beauty comes from within and what you believe that is what you are.
So, you kinda look like Glenn Close, or Cher? There are days when they look really good, and others when, well???
just by what you said... if your luke warm that's when to worry but if you have them hating what they can't have your spot on ma'am
Look in the mirror
check in a mirror
Please find your own beauty. Don't look outside yourself for love, acceptance, approval. You are the judge of you and you get to decide how amazing and beautiful you are.
You only need to be attractive to one, so the fact that some seem smitten ought to be good enough -- unless you find all of them disgusting, which may be another problem.
gimmi a look at your pic and i'l tell ya ;)
eeeek. that would mean looking at profiles.. did i ever mention how lazy i am ? ;)
first of all mark me down as smitten. You are Damn good looking..
Keep changing your hair dye and makeup, until all guys seem smitten.
Well that's the reaction that Angelina Jolie gets. I know men who think she's drop dead gorgeous and men who don't think she's attractive at all. I'd say just stick with the guys that think you're hot. You'll never please everyone no matter what you look like.