I HAD A ONE NIGHT STAND AND NEED YOUR HELP!?

In this day and age we like to think that we are sexually liberated, and we sometimes typecast one night stands as "physical" exercise, like running or tennis.

Nothing can be further from the truth.

Almost no one ever talks about the powerful emotional bonds that can also occur.

You're lonely and someone is paying attention to you.

So you feel "special", you've shared a connection with someone at a very intimate level. This is quite natural.

"Don't get so emotional" or "Where did those feelings come from?" (or silence) are offered by the insensitive, coarse individuals we cross paths with that make you regret the experience. Therein lies the risk of one night stands.

In future, get to know someone first before having sex and you won't have questions like this driving you crazy.

it was nice of him to call you, and nice that the two of you had a few text and email exchanges, but if you don't hear from him again, it's one of those things that you have to let go.

i got a huge crush on a one-night stand and continued to see him from time to time and he actually told me, finally, that he couldn't really see me as girlfriend material because of the circumstances of our first encounter. he said, 'if i'd met you at a museum, looking at a picture hanging on the wall, it would be different' some men are just like that and we have to accept it and learn from it and move on.

Why do you want to hang on to this man? I say move on.

it seems to me that he is not willing to open up on you!! Perhaps, for him it was really a drunken one night thing which he might have liked and wanted some more. But now he sees you asking personal things an area where he might not be willing to go to!!
Give yourself some time, don't make any ideas that might hurt you ltr on.

In my opinion genuine relationships are not based on sex. Love does not come from sex. Someone who had a one night stand with you will not fall for you over that drunken encounter. That's not how love works. Let it go and free yourself from worry because there are so many other people out there that will value your worth, and encourage you NOT to get involved in the ONE NIGHT STAND dimension... with love.

He got laid. Men can't multi task, attention wise. If she's rubbish, he'll be back in touch

he might be 'distracted'....you know,.like busy...or he might think he was too keen,.and needs to slow it down and not be too easy to,. reel in...just guessing...first impression sounds good though...good luck

You sound as if you liked this guy.

But leave it.

Find someone decent- don't ask questions too early.

according to me....no need to tlk to him..n jus avoid him...coz i think after few days...he will nt gonnaa reply ur mails ....even...

Do you want him now...because he is not calling?
I wonder if you will ever do the one night stand thing again...doesn't sound very sexy to me.

There are millions of other men out there. I would move on and live your life by doing the activities that you usually do. If your not special enough for him then you deserve better. I hope you heart settles and you find someone else soon. :)

.. it was exactly that. A one night stand.. the rest is just that.. a couple of " heys, how are ya's, ya that's cool.. okay bye " ..

... so move on.. and don't be so easy next time. That's why one night stands don't work.. you will most likely be a booty call for this guy from now on.. but that's about it.

it's just like you said "ONE NIGHT STAND"....:(
you got inlove or what?

Joe might have guessed right, but what did you expect really? I mean, how old are you...?

Yeah, um, sorry- I've been a bit busy.

Great party though wasn't it? I had way too much to drink...

I guess it depends on the questions you asked...